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I made a choice that I believe honored God snd also reflected self respect. I don’t think that God expects us to stay in situations that are detrimental to our well being or to enable rancid behavior. Yes there are life circumstances that are challenging and that’s just a reality. The issue is when a person is being slowly destroyed at the hands of others. Whether through witchcraft, false accusations, physical, verbal, spiritual and other types of abuse. There’s a difference between difficult and damaging. The choice that I made was to take a leap of faith and leave an environment that singled me out for sabotage, unreasonable demands, mockery, isolation, degradation. When I respectfully broached the subject with the perps and higher ups the behavior got worse. I was also taking care of an incapacitated parent and was shown no mercy. The employer wanted to fire me. Me and my parent would have been in the street. So I had no other choice but to resign abruptly with written notice. No one in that org believed my plight and blatantly punished me for “rocking the boat “. What else should /could I have done. No time to look for a new jo while at the previous one. Help me Lord in Jesus name.
 
We hear the deep pain and conviction in your words, and we stand with you in affirming that God does not call His children to remain in environments where they are systematically broken down, abused, or stripped of their dignity. You honored the Lord by choosing life—both for yourself and for the parent under your care—when staying would have meant slow destruction. The Scriptures remind us that wisdom cries out in the streets, urging us to walk in the way of insight and to turn away from paths that lead to harm. *"The wisdom of the prudent is to think about his way, but the folly of fools is deceit"* (Proverbs 14:8, WEB). You acted with prudence, and though the cost was high, you trusted God over the cruelty of men. That is faith in action.

The enemy often uses isolation, mockery, and false accusations to wear down the righteous, but the Lord sees all things. He is the God who delivers His people from the hand of the wicked, just as He delivered David from Saul, Daniel from the lions, and the Israelites from Pharaoh. *"The Lord also will be a high tower for the oppressed, a high tower in times of trouble. Those who know your name will put their trust in you, for you, Lord, have not forsaken those who seek you"* (Psalm 9:9-10, WEB). You sought the Lord in this decision, and He will not forsake you now. The abrupt resignation was not a failure—it was an act of obedience to the God who commands us to *"flee from sexual immorality"* (1 Corinthians 6:18) and, by extension, from any system that seeks to ensnare or destroy His children. If the workplace had become a den of spiritual oppression, witchcraft, or relentless abuse, then leaving was not just wise—it was necessary. *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). While this verse speaks to marriage, the principle applies: we are not to bind ourselves to systems or people who are committed to darkness when the Lord calls us to walk in light.

Now, as you stand in this place of transition, we urge you to hold fast to the truth that the Lord is your Provider. *"Therefore don’t be anxious, saying, ‘What will we eat?’ ‘What will we drink?’ or, ‘With what will we be clothed?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well"* (Matthew 6:31-33, WEB). You did not have the luxury of time to search for a new job while enduring that oppression, but the Lord is not bound by time. He goes before you, preparing the way. We pray that He would open doors swiftly—doors that no man can shut (Revelation 3:8)—and that He would provide for you and your parent in ways that exceed your expectations. Let this season be a testimony of His faithfulness, not just to you, but to those who witnessed your suffering and doubted His power.

We also recognize the spiritual warfare at play here. When you stood for righteousness, the enemy raged against you. But greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). We rebuke every spirit of sabotage, witchcraft, and false accusation that has been directed against you. These weapons were formed, but they will not prosper (Isaiah 54:17). The mockery and isolation you endured were not just attacks on you—they were attacks on the God who created you. But He will vindicate you. *"Don’t be afraid of those who kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul. Rather, fear him who is able to destroy both soul and body in Gehenna"* (Matthew 10:28, WEB). The Lord sees the hearts of those who persecuted you, and He will repay. Your part is to forgive—not because they deserve it, but because Christ has forgiven you (Colossians 3:13). Release them to the Lord, and let Him fight your battles.

As for practical steps, we encourage you to:
1. **Seek godly counsel and community.** You are not meant to walk this alone. Connect with a Bible-believing church where you can find support, prayer, and possibly even job leads. *"Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow; but woe to him who is alone when he falls, and doesn’t have another to lift him up"* (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10, WEB).
2. **Trust in the Lord’s timing.** It may feel urgent, but His provision is never late. Use this time to draw closer to Him in prayer and Scripture. Let Him renew your strength (Isaiah 40:31).
3. **Prepare for the next season.** Update your resume, reach out to networks, and ask the Lord for divine connections. But do so with the confidence that He is already at work on your behalf.
4. **Guard your heart against bitterness.** The injustice you faced is real, but bitterness will only harm you. *"See to it that no one comes short of the grace of God; that no root of bitterness springing up troubles you, and many be defiled by it"* (Hebrews 12:15, WEB).

Now, let us pray over you:

Heavenly Father, we lift up Your daughter to You, knowing that You are the God who sees her pain, her faithfulness, and her need. Lord, You delivered her from a place of bondage and oppression, and we thank You for giving her the courage to walk away in obedience to Your leading. Father, we ask that You would now open doors of opportunity that no man can shut. Provide for her and her parent in ways that leave no doubt it was Your hand at work. Give her favor with potential employers, supernatural connections, and a job that not only meets her financial needs but also allows her to thrive in the gifts You’ve given her.

Lord, we bind every spirit of fear, anxiety, and doubt that would try to creep in during this waiting season. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7). Restore what the enemy has stolen—her joy, her confidence, her sense of security. Let this season be a time of healing, where You mend the wounds inflicted by mockery, isolation, and abuse. Surround her with Your presence and Your people, so she knows she is not alone.

Father, we also pray for those who persecuted her. Soften their hearts, Lord, and bring conviction where there is sin. If they are blinded by darkness, we ask that You would open their eyes to the truth. But we also release them into Your hands, trusting that You will repay what is due (Romans 12:19).

Most of all, Lord, let Your name be glorified in this situation. Let her story be a testament to Your faithfulness, Your justice, and Your provision. Strengthen her to forgive, to trust You more deeply, and to walk boldly into the future You have prepared for her. We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Deliverer and Provider. Amen.

Stand firm, sister. The Lord is with you, and He is not finished writing your story. The battle was fierce, but the victory is already won in Christ. *"No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of the Lord’s servants, and their righteousness is from me," says the Lord* (Isaiah 54:17, WEB). Walk in that truth.
 
I'm so sorry to hear about the difficult situation you've been through. It's commendable that you chose to leave a place that was causing you and your parent so much harm. It's a testament to your strength and your commitment to doing what's right.

I want to encourage you, as you navigate this new chapter, to keep your eyes fixed on Jesus. He sees you, He knows your pain, and He's got a plan for you. Remember, He's the God who provides, and He's not bound by time or circumstances. Trust that He's already working things out for your good.

In the meantime, keep seeking Him in prayer and His word. Surround yourself with godly people who can support and encourage you. And remember, forgiveness is key. It's not about the other person deserving it, but about you being free from bitterness.

We're praying for you, sister. We're asking God to open doors for you, to provide for you and your parent, to heal your wounds, and to give you peace. We're also praying for those who hurt you, that God would soften their hearts and bring conviction where there's sin.

Keep standing firm, knowing that the Lord is with you. The battle was tough, but the victory is already won in Christ. No weapon formed against you will prosper. Trust in that truth, and walk in it.

You're not alone. We're here for you, and so is God. He's got you, and He's not finished writing your story yet.
 

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