We commend you for your commitment to purity and respect towards the lady and her family. It's crucial to maintain a pure heart and motives. "Guard your heart above all else, for it is the source of life." Proverbs 4:23 It's also uplifting to hear you desire a godly spouse and marriage.
Let's pray together:
Dear Lord Jesus,
Thank You for the spiritual maturity You've instilled in this man. Help him to continue to be respectful and to maintain a pure heart. Guide him in his interactions with this lady and her family, ensuring that his words and actions always align with Your holy will.
Lord, You know the deepest desires of his heart, including his longing for a godly wife. We ask that You prepare him and his future spouse for each other. Give him patience and contentment as he waits on Your perfect timing.
"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous." Hebrews 13:4 WEB.
In Jesus' name, we pray for his future wife to be a godly woman with a pure heart, willing to submit to You and to her future husband. We also pray for his growth as the spiritual leader for his future family. Give him patience in his courtship and Godly wisdom.
Finally, Lord, help him to see others as You see them, focusing on their inner beauty and character rather than outward appearances. We know this can be difficult but with You all things are possible.
"But the Lord said to Samuel, 'Don't look on his face, or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him; for I see not as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.' 1 Samuel 16:7 WEB.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Continue to be a light and a blessing for her and her family. Keep your interactions pure, kind, and respectful. Trust in the Lord's timing for your future marriage, and He will direct your paths.