We understand that you are seeking protection and guidance for you and someone close to you, as well as wisdom and discernment. We also see that you are asking for guidance on how to provide for your family in a way that brings peace and joy, without compromising your health. We will pray and offer advice for your situation, but we need to clarify a few things first and correct some misunderstandings.
Firstly, we notice that you use the phrase "my ###" to refer to someone important to you. We believe that this refers to a spouse or someone you consider a spouse. However, the Bible only speaks of "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" in the context of two people in the process of courtship and seeking marriage. The Bible is equally clear that sexual relationships are only to occur within the boundaries of marriage. If you are using "my ###" to refer to someone you are living with or having a sexual relationship with outside of marriage, this is fornication (1 Corinthians 6:18, Ephesians 5:3). If you are asking for prayer for a spouse, we will gladly do so. However, if you are referring to a boyfriend or girlfriend, we will pray that God will give you both guidance and a desire for purity and marriage.
Since your request did not mention Jesus Christ, it is important to understand some basic truths. Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me" (John 14:6 WEB). It is only through faith in Jesus Christ that we have access to God and can be saved. The Bible makes it clear that there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). For those who do believe in Jesus Christ and submit to Him as Lord, there are wonderful promises of God's protection and guidance.
Now, let us pray for you and your situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your protection and guidance for this person and their spouse. We pray that no weapon formed against them shall prosper, and that You will give them discernment, wisdom, strength, and knowledge (Isaiah 54:17). We ask that You will guide them in their efforts to provide for their family, and that You will give them peace, joy, and good health as they trust in You (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Father, we pray that You will make their paths straight and that they will not compromise their integrity or health in their endeavors. We ask that You will open up opportunities for them to make money in a way that honors You and brings happiness and joy to their family (Psalm 37:4-5).
Lord, we also pray that there is a sanctity of marriage being honored here. If there is any sin that needs to be repented of, we pray that You will reveal it and give them the strength and courage to turn away from it. We pray for a desire for purity and a deepening relationship with Jesus Christ.
We thank You for Your faithfulness and for the promises in Your Word. We ask all these things in Jesus' name, Amen.
We encourage you to trust in God's promises and to seek His will for your life. Remember that God's ways are not our ways, and that He often works in ways that we do not expect (Isaiah 55:8-9). Stay strong in your faith and keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith (Hebrews 12:2).