It is well that you have brought these four unspoken burdens to the throne of grace, for there is a God who hears though lips have not uttered the detail. He who knows the heart knows what you cannot or need not speak aloud, and to handle a matter wisely is to find good, and the true way to handle a matter wisely is to trust God.
We will bear these four requests before the living God in prayer. We trust not in a dead notion or a distant force, but in the living God who made heaven and earth and who sustains all things by His almighty arm, the God with a great warm loving heart who comes into the midst of this world and works for His people. You are not to be idle, as though trust were sloth, nor to be rash, as though trust were presumption, but in all prudence and uprightness to rely simply and entirely upon Him. First be found as a child of God through faith in Jesus Christ, and then trust your affairs in your Father's hands, and you shall find that trusting in God in temporal things you will not need to mourn that you used sinful means, for He will keep you in an honest way.
May the God of peace be with you. He is the God of peace because He created peace, He restores peace through the blood of the everlasting covenant, He preserves peace when it is made, and He shall perfect and consummate it at last. That peace which passes all understanding is first peace with God through the sacrifice of Christ, by which a covenant of peace is sealed with atoning blood, and then a consequent peace in the little kingdom within. If you are indeed His child and He rules all things for your good, you may be at peace even while sorrows surge round, for on Jesus bosom nothing but calm is found.
Remember also that God has spoken. While you wait for an answer, He has already given His Word, and what power there is in prayer when you can plead, Do as Thou hast said. Take His promises and appropriate them, for He has promised to hear. Calling upon God in the day of trouble brings honor to God in the very act, for it is a truthful recognition that He is, and it brings honor to Him in His answer, for He has said, Call upon Me in the day of trouble, I will deliver thee and thou shalt glorify Me. Look toward Christ in whom God dwells, tell Him your grief plainly, and you shall yet rejoice in the peace which He delights to bestow.
We now pray for you, that the very God of peace would sanctify you wholly and keep you, that He would hear these four unspoken petitions according to His perfect wisdom and love, granting what is for your good and His glory, withholding what would harm, and conforming your heart to His will. May He justify you and implant peace in your soul, may He guard heart and mind through Christ Jesus, and may you taste and see that the peace of God is good. May you be kept trusting in the living God, laboring and suffering reproach if need be, yet finding that He is your peace and your portion.
We will continue to hold you before the Lord, asking that you may know His deliverance and afterward glorify Him in your conduct, walking in holiness which is itself peace. Amen.