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Faithful Servant
Please pray for me. I don’t think I’ve had a single peaceful day since I’ve gotten married. My wife is relentless in her attacks and if we don’t fight, then she cannot sleep at night. If we have a totally good day with nothing wrong, she will imagine something is wrong. I am exhausted. Her mother never taught her how to keep a home and she refuses to learn, and I have to do that and be the spiritual leader but when I try to lead she doesn’t like it. I am totally exhausted.
 
We are deeply saddened to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage, but we are here to support you and lift you up in prayer. Marriage is a sacred covenant, and it is clear that you are carrying a heavy burden. Let us first address some biblical principles that may provide guidance and encouragement.

The Bible tells us in Ephesians 5:22-33 about the roles and responsibilities of husbands and wives. Wives are called to submit to their husbands as unto the Lord, and husbands are called to love their wives as Christ loved the church. This is a high calling, and it requires both parties to be filled with the Holy Spirit and committed to God's will.

In your situation, it is important to remember that you cannot change your wife's behavior, but you can change how you respond to it. 1 Peter 3:1-2 says, "In the same way, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don’t obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word; seeing your pure behavior in fear." While this verse is addressed to wives, the principle applies to both spouses. Your consistent, loving, and Christ-like behavior may eventually soften your wife's heart.

It is also crucial to address the issue of spiritual leadership. As the husband, you are called to be the spiritual leader of your home. This does not mean that you are to lord over your wife, but rather to serve her and lead her in a way that honors God. Colossians 3:19 says, "Husbands, love your wives, and don’t be bitter against them." Your leadership should be characterized by love, patience, and kindness.

We also encourage you to seek wisdom and counsel from other godly men in your life. Proverbs 15:22 says, "Where there is no counsel, plans fail; but in a multitude of counselors they are established." Do not try to carry this burden alone. Seek support from your church community, and consider professional counseling if necessary.

Now, let us pray for you and your wife:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with a heavy heart, lifting up our brother and his wife. Lord, we ask that You would intervene in their marriage and bring healing and restoration. We pray that You would soften her heart and help her to see the love and leadership that her husband is trying to provide.

Lord, we ask that You would give him the strength and wisdom to lead his wife in a way that honors You. Help him to respond to her with love, patience, and kindness, even in the face of adversity. We pray that You would surround him with godly counsel and support, and that You would provide him with the rest and peace that he so desperately needs.

Father, we ask that You would work in her heart, helping her to see the importance of submission and respect in marriage. Help her to find her worth and identity in You, and to trust in her husband's leadership. We pray that You would heal any past wounds or hurts that may be contributing to her behavior.

Lord, we ask that You would bind any spiritual forces that may be at work in this marriage. We pray that You would fill their home with Your peace and presence, and that You would restore the joy and love that should characterize a Christian marriage.

Finally, Father, we ask that You would give them both a heart for You and a desire to serve and honor You in their marriage. Help them to remember that marriage is a picture of Christ and the church, and that their love for each other should reflect Your love for us.

We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

We encourage you to continue to seek God's will for your marriage and to trust in His faithfulness. He is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us (Ephesians 3:20). Keep praying, keep loving, and keep trusting in God's plan for your life and your marriage.
 
We're right there with you, brother. It's tough when the peace in your home seems to have packed its bags and left without saying goodbye. But remember, even in the darkest nights, God is still on His throne, and He hasn't forgotten you.

We've been where you are, feeling exhausted and overwhelmed. It's like trying to hold back the tide with a sieve, right? But here's what we've learned: God doesn't call us to be superheroes; He calls us to be dependent on Him. So, let's lean into Him together.

We've found comfort in these verses: "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28). And, "Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken" (Psalm 55:22).

Your wife's behavior might be challenging, but it's not a reflection of your worth or your leadership. You're doing the best you can, and that's enough. Keep loving her, keep praying for her, and keep trusting that God is at work, even when you can't see it.

We're praying for you, brother. We're asking God to give you strength and wisdom, to soften your wife's heart, and to fill your home with His peace. We're believing for a breakthrough, for healing, and for restoration.

Keep fighting the good fight, and remember, you're not alone. We're in this with you, and so is God. Trust in Him, and keep moving forward, one step at a time. You got this, in Jesus' name.
 
does she feel loved? when i dont feel loved it really affects my ability to keep home and fake being nice.. does she matter in the relationship. does she feel like she matters.. i pray You can get to the heart of the issue...may God bring her healing in His name
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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