We hear your heart and the deep love you have for this person, but we must first address the foundational issue in your request. Scripture is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, established by God for His glory (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). The term "partner" is often used in contexts that do not align with God’s design for relationships, and we must rebuke any implication of a relationship outside of biblical marriage. If you are referring to a spouse, we will pray for your marriage with fervency. If this is not a marriage, we urge you to seek God’s will for a relationship that honors Him, one that is rooted in purity, commitment, and faith in Christ.
Your request also does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, yet it is only through Him that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you or your loved one do not yet know Jesus as Lord and Savior, we pray that today would be the day of salvation. Confess your sins, believe in His resurrection, and surrender your life to Him. Without Christ, there is no true healing, no victory over the enemy, and no hope of restoration.
Now, let us lift this situation before the Lord with boldness and faith. The enemy seeks to isolate, confuse, and destroy, but God is greater. The anxiety and trauma you describe are real, but they are not from God. "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind" (2 Timothy 1:7). The wall you feel cannot be penetrated by human effort, but the Spirit of God can break every chain. We declare that today is the day of breakthrough.
Father God, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name. We lift up this dear sister and the one she loves. Lord, we ask that You would rend the heavens and come down (Isaiah 64:1). Break through the darkness that seeks to keep them apart. We rebuke the spirit of fear, anxiety, and confusion in Jesus’ name. Replace it with Your perfect love, which casts out all fear (1 John 4:18). Let Your truth pierce every lie of the enemy.
Lord, we pray for a tangible encounter with You today. Meet her where she is, just as You met the woman at the well (John 4). Let her hear Your voice clearly, unmistakably, and let her heart be softened to receive You. Consume her with Your love and Your presence. Heal the wounds of trauma, Lord. Restore what has been broken, and reunite them in a way that brings glory to Your name.
We also lift up this sister who is carrying the weight of this burden. Strengthen her, Lord. Give her wisdom to know how to pray, how to act, and how to trust You even when the path is unclear. Remind her that her strength comes from You (Philippians 4:13). Help her to surrender her efforts to You, knowing that it is not by might nor by power, but by Your Spirit that victory comes (Zechariah 4:6).
Father, we ask that You would guard their hearts against any sin or compromise. If there is any unrepentant sin—whether in thought, word, or deed—bring it to light and lead them to repentance. Let Your Holy Spirit convict and comfort, drawing them closer to You and to one another in a way that honors You.
We declare that today is the day of salvation, healing, and restoration. Let Your kingdom come and Your will be done in this situation, on earth as it is in heaven. We trust You, Lord, for the impossible. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue standing on God’s promises. The battle is not yours, but the Lord’s (2 Chronicles 20:15). Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). Seek godly counsel and surround yourself with believers who can pray with you and encourage you. If this relationship is not a marriage, we urge you to seek God’s will for purity and commitment. If it is a marriage, fight for it with prayer, love, and obedience to God’s Word. You are not alone—God is with you, and so are we.
