Anonymous
Beloved of All
A man came into my sister's life and turned her relationship with us and her upside down. This man did this because she was lonely, weak-minded to his tricks and attacks, and dependent on his money after he interfered with her working.
The first couple of years were okay, but then things turned bad. I didn't know it, but this man was turning my sister against us. He started sending her things, and it wasn't that we didn't want to buy her things; it was that we didn't have the money to. He knew how to get close to her, and he did it. He started talking to her against me and other family members. I didn't know what happened all of a sudden; we were under attack. This man came under the guise that he was a Christian, but he was not. He was listening to false preachers and was working hard on my sister against us. Christians don't do this.
My sister started saying very nasty things about our race (he is white, and she is not). She never said these things until he came along. She quit her job because he kept demanding her to work for him, and foolishly, she did it, but she was lonely and afraid this man would exit her life. He had a couple of degrees, and unfortunately, she didn't get to meet other people because we were caring for our sick parent, and it was a 24-7 job. So, she kind of worshiped and cherished this man. He mistreated her several times, insulting her, putting her intelligence down, verbally chewing her out about not doing the work he wanted done correctly, but my sister and I were working and taking care of our mom. I wanted to cry because she had a blank stare on her face after he had chewed her out, and she said, "I work, and take care of my family; what does he want me to do?"
I kept telling her to leave this man alone, but she was lonely for other people and just would not do this (ironically, I had a friend, and she was not good, but I too needed friendship. Well, she eventually convinced me to leave her alone, and I did because honestly, the girl was not godly either, but she never left him no matter what).
My brother needed my sister's help, but she held a grudge against him, and he passed away. She said she would do things differently, but what she failed to see was the reason why she was holding this grudge was because of this man. This man had her feeling like we were disposable, and anything and everything we did was unforgivable while he did wrongful things, and they were always pardoned. He keeps in contact with his family but had her trying to totally abandon us and move away from us where he is the only person around. He got mad at her one day and tried to punish her by completely destroying a business that she built. All he had done was come up with the name. He knew this was the only income she had, and he tried to take it away from her.
I pray this man doesn't get to marry my sister. This man caused a lot of rifts and harm with us and her. He had her calling other people looking like her racial names. He used her and barely paid her for the work she was doing, and finally, when he did pay, he tried to punish her and destroy the business. I also found out this man is trying to get a hold of her to have sexual relations. This man doesn't care about her, or he would not be doing what he did to her and us, and I am afraid that she is going to compromise and let her emotions tie her to this evil man.
The first couple of years were okay, but then things turned bad. I didn't know it, but this man was turning my sister against us. He started sending her things, and it wasn't that we didn't want to buy her things; it was that we didn't have the money to. He knew how to get close to her, and he did it. He started talking to her against me and other family members. I didn't know what happened all of a sudden; we were under attack. This man came under the guise that he was a Christian, but he was not. He was listening to false preachers and was working hard on my sister against us. Christians don't do this.
My sister started saying very nasty things about our race (he is white, and she is not). She never said these things until he came along. She quit her job because he kept demanding her to work for him, and foolishly, she did it, but she was lonely and afraid this man would exit her life. He had a couple of degrees, and unfortunately, she didn't get to meet other people because we were caring for our sick parent, and it was a 24-7 job. So, she kind of worshiped and cherished this man. He mistreated her several times, insulting her, putting her intelligence down, verbally chewing her out about not doing the work he wanted done correctly, but my sister and I were working and taking care of our mom. I wanted to cry because she had a blank stare on her face after he had chewed her out, and she said, "I work, and take care of my family; what does he want me to do?"
I kept telling her to leave this man alone, but she was lonely for other people and just would not do this (ironically, I had a friend, and she was not good, but I too needed friendship. Well, she eventually convinced me to leave her alone, and I did because honestly, the girl was not godly either, but she never left him no matter what).
My brother needed my sister's help, but she held a grudge against him, and he passed away. She said she would do things differently, but what she failed to see was the reason why she was holding this grudge was because of this man. This man had her feeling like we were disposable, and anything and everything we did was unforgivable while he did wrongful things, and they were always pardoned. He keeps in contact with his family but had her trying to totally abandon us and move away from us where he is the only person around. He got mad at her one day and tried to punish her by completely destroying a business that she built. All he had done was come up with the name. He knew this was the only income she had, and he tried to take it away from her.
I pray this man doesn't get to marry my sister. This man caused a lot of rifts and harm with us and her. He had her calling other people looking like her racial names. He used her and barely paid her for the work she was doing, and finally, when he did pay, he tried to punish her and destroy the business. I also found out this man is trying to get a hold of her to have sexual relations. This man doesn't care about her, or he would not be doing what he did to her and us, and I am afraid that she is going to compromise and let her emotions tie her to this evil man.
