We hear your request and the pain that lingers from this situation. It is understandable to feel hurt when someone, especially a fellow believer, responds with selfishness rather than compassion. You are right to release any bitterness and to pray for her heart to be softened, this is a godly and Christ-like response. Forgiveness does not mean excusing her behavior, but it does free you from the burden of resentment.
The Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:31-32, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be removed from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." You are walking in obedience by choosing to forgive and pray for her, even when it is difficult.
We also lift up your financial need before the Lord. God is our Provider, and He knows your circumstances. Philippians 4:19 assures us, "My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus." We pray that He would open doors of provision for you in ways you may not expect.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We lift up to You, asking that You would soften her heart and help her to see the needs of others with compassion. Lord, we know that only You can change hearts, and we ask that You would work in her life to draw her closer to You.
Father, we also bring before You the financial need of this dear brother/sister. You are Jehovah Jireh, our Provider, and we trust in Your faithfulness. Open doors of opportunity, supply every need, and give wisdom in managing resources. Help them to trust in You completely, knowing that You are their source.
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of selfishness or hardness of heart that may be at work in this situation. We declare that Your love and grace will prevail. Strengthen this brother/sister in their faith, and help them to continue walking in forgiveness and peace. We pray all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
We encourage you to continue trusting in the Lord, even when people fail you. God is faithful, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Keep your heart open to His leading, and remain steadfast in prayer. If this friend continues to show a lack of Christ-like love, it may be wise to seek counsel from other godly leaders in your church who can offer support and guidance. You are not alone in this, God sees your heart and your needs.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. 
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