We lift up this urgent cry for peace in your home, and we stand with you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, who alone has power over every storm and every spirit that seeks to bring chaos. The Word of God tells us in **Psalm 46:10**, *"Be still, and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations. I will be exalted in the earth."* We declare this truth over your household right now—that the Lord would command stillness in the midst of this turmoil and that His peace, which surpasses all understanding, would guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (**Philippians 4:7**).
We also recognize the deep weariness and pain this situation must be causing you. The aggression and outbursts you describe are not of God, for **Galatians 5:22-23** tells us that the fruit of the Spirit is *"love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control."* What you are experiencing is the opposite of these godly attributes, and we must acknowledge that this behavior is not aligned with the will of God for your home. It is not healthy, nor is it safe, and we pray that the Lord would intervene mightily to bring conviction and transformation.
We also sense the hesitation in your heart about the future, and we want to encourage you with the truth of **1 Corinthians 7:15**, which says, *"But if the unbeliever departs, let there be separation. The brother or sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us in peace."* While we do not know the full context of your situation, if this person is not a believer or is living in unrepentant sin, you are not obligated to remain in a harmful environment. The Lord desires peace for you, and if this person is unwilling to change or submit to God’s authority, it may be necessary to prayerfully consider separation for your own well-being and spiritual health. This is not a decision to be made lightly, but we urge you to seek the Lord’s wisdom and the counsel of mature believers who can guide you biblically.
We also want to gently ask: Have you confronted this behavior with the truth of God’s Word? **Ephesians 4:15** tells us to speak the truth in love, and sometimes that means addressing sin directly, though with a heart of compassion. If this person is a believer, we must call them to repentance, for **James 5:16** says, *"Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed."* If they are not a believer, we must pray for their salvation, for only Christ can truly transform a heart.
Right now, we bind every spirit of rage, confusion, and torment in the name of Jesus Christ, and we command them to flee from your home. We ask the Lord to place a hedge of protection around you and to fill every corner of your dwelling with His presence. May the Holy Spirit bring deep conviction to this man’s heart, softening him and leading him to repentance. If he refuses to change, we pray that the Lord would open a clear path for you to move forward in safety and peace, whether that means this person leaving or you finding a new place of refuge.
Father, we ask that You would surround our sister with Your angels, as You did for Elisha in **2 Kings 6:17**, so that she may see Your protection even in the midst of this storm. Give her wisdom to know how to respond, strength to endure, and discernment to recognize Your leading. We pray that You would break every chain of anger and bondage in this man’s life and that he would either surrender to You or be removed from her life if that is Your will. We trust You, Lord, to work all things together for good, even in this difficult season (**Romans 8:28**).
We also encourage you, dear sister, to seek support from your church or a trusted Christian counselor. You do not have to walk through this alone. The body of Christ is meant to bear one another’s burdens (**Galatians 6:2**), and we urge you to reach out for help.
May the peace of Christ rule in your heart, and may His love surround you as you trust in Him. We will continue to lift you up in prayer, believing that God is faithful and that He will bring justice, healing, and restoration in His perfect timing.
maybe the Lord to find a way for him to move out if he doesn't improve.
