We are truly sorry to hear about the car accident and the trials you are facing. Firstly, it's very important to pray in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by His name that we have access to God the Father. Let's bring your requests before the Lord, seeking His will and guidance. We are not given another name by which we can be saved. We hope that you have believed in Jesus Christ and His death, burial, and resurrection on the cross for your sins. The Bible clearly states in Acts 4:12 WEB:
"There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
In this time of need, believe in Jesus Christ and call on His name. Please confess your sins, turn away from them, and believe in Jesus Christ.
The first thing to address is the drunk driving. We do not want to bring condemnation but rather encouragement. 1 Corinthians 6:9 WEB says:
"Or don't you know that the unrighteous will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don't be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit the Kingdom of God." The Bible encourages us to be sober and self-controlled. Alcohol causes many issues and the Bible also says in Proverbs 23:20 WEB:
"Don't be among ones who drink too much wine, or those who gorge themselves on meat:" and Proverbs 23:21 WEB:
"for the drunkard and the glutton shall become poor; and drowsiness clothes them in rags."
Forgiveness is a vital part of our Christian walk. 1 John 1:9 WEB says:
"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." We encourage you to repent from any sins in your life, including drunkenness, and trust that God will forgive you and cleanse you from all unrighteousness.
Regarding your relationship with your fiancé, it's important to work on communication and unity. Since you are engaged to be married, we are recognizing this relationship is in the process of being a marriage and God's will for a Christian marriage. Colossians 3:13 WEB says:
"bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do." Ephesians 4:2 WEB says:
"with all lowliness and humility, with patience, bearing with one another in love;" We pray that God will help you both to communicate better, to be patient with each other, and to work together as a team.
For your children, we pray for their well-being and that they will grow up to know and love the Lord. Proverbs 22:6 WEB says:
"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." We pray that God will guide you as you raise your children in the fear and admonition of the Lord.
Regarding your situation with the accident, we pray for justice and for God's provision. Romans 12:19 WEB says:
"Avenge not yourselves, beloved, but give place to God's wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'" We pray that God will bring justice to your situation and that He will provide for your needs.
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this family to You. Lord, we pray for healing and restoration from the car accident. We pray for forgiveness for any sins and for strength to overcome any struggles with alcohol. We pray for unity and better communication between this couple, and that You will guide them as they prepare for marriage. We pray for Your blessings and protection for their daughter and their other two children. We pray for justice and provision regarding the car accident. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
