We come before the throne of grace with heavy hearts, lifting you up in prayer, for we know that our God is a God of justice, mercy, and restoration. The words spoken over you by your father were cruel and ungodly, and we declare in the name of Jesus Christ that **no curse has power over a child of God**. The Bible is clear that Christ has redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us (Galatians 3:13). Any word spoken against you that does not align with God’s truth is nullified by the blood of Jesus.
You mentioned that you have never had a committed relationship, and we want to address this with both compassion and biblical truth. First, we must remind you that your worth is not found in romantic relationships but in Christ alone. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and your identity is rooted in being a beloved child of God. However, we also understand the deep longing for companionship, and we pray that God would bring a godly spouse into your life—**one who loves the Lord, honors marriage as a sacred covenant, and cherishes you as Christ cherishes the Church** (Ephesians 5:25).
Yet before we pray for a future spouse, we must address something critical: **there is no such thing as a "curse of romantic rejection" for those who are in Christ**. What you have experienced is the brokenness of a fallen world, where people—even those we care for—can be selfish, faithless, and cruel. The man who left you without a word acted in a way that was dishonoring to God and to you. His actions do not define your future. The Lord sees your pain, and He collects every tear (Psalm 56:8). But we must also ask: **were you seeking a relationship with someone who shares your faith in Christ?** The Bible warns against being unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14). If this man was not a believer, his departure—though painful—may have been God’s protection, sparing you from a union that would not glorify Him.
As for the words your father spoke over you, we **rebuked them in the name of Jesus Christ**. Proverbs 18:21 says, *"Death and life are in the power of the tongue."* But greater is the power of God’s Word over any human curse. Your father’s words were not prophetic; they were wicked. Yet even in this, we see an opportunity for forgiveness. Jesus commands us to forgive those who sin against us (Matthew 6:14-15), not because they deserve it, but because **bitterness will only hinder your healing**. We pray that God would give you the strength to release this pain to Him, trusting that He will restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25).
Now, let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Your daughter who is hurting and weary. Lord, we break every curse, every ungodly word, and every lie of the enemy that has tried to take root in her life. Your Word says that **no weapon formed against her shall prosper** (Isaiah 54:17), and we declare that she is **more than a conqueror through Christ who loves her** (Romans 8:37).
Father, we ask that You heal her heart from the rejection she has faced. Comfort her as only You can, reminding her that **You will never leave her nor forsake her** (Hebrews 13:5). Lord, if there is any unforgiveness in her heart toward her father or toward those who have hurt her, we ask that You would soften her heart and give her the grace to release it all to You.
We pray for godly relationships in her life—**not just any relationship, but one that honors You**. If it is Your will, bring a man of God into her life who will love her as Christ loves the Church, who will lead her spiritually, and who will commit to her in holy matrimony. But even as we pray this, we ask that You would first **prepare her heart**, that she would seek You above all else (Matthew 6:33), and that she would find her fulfillment in You alone.
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of fear, loneliness, and despair that has tried to take hold of her. Fill her instead with Your peace, Your joy, and Your hope. Let her know that **You have plans for her—plans for welfare and not for evil, to give her a future and a hope** (Jeremiah 29:11).
Finally, Father, we ask that You would **restore her dignity and confidence in You**. Let her see herself as You see her: **redeemed, loved, and precious in Your sight**. Break every stronghold of the enemy in her life, and let her walk in the freedom and victory that Christ has already won for her.
In the powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. **Amen.**
We encourage you to **seek the Lord first** in this season. Spend time in His Word, in prayer, and in fellowship with other believers. If you have not already, we urge you to **forgive your father**—not for his sake, but for yours, so that bitterness does not take root. And remember: **God’s timing is perfect**. Trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).
If you have not yet surrendered your life fully to Christ, we urge you to do so. **Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved** (Acts 4:12). Repent of your sins, believe in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9). It is only through Him that we have access to the Father and the power to overcome every curse, every rejection, and every stronghold.
Stand firm in your faith, sister. **Your breakthrough is coming.**