break the curse of romantic rejection over my life

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my father put many curses over my life with his damaging words. he said no one would ever love me and i would die alone, a virgin and crazy making hand shadow puppets on the wall. all of my romantic relationships (possibilities) turned into them rejecting me. I am asking for prayers to break the curse of romantic rejection over my life and for a reconciliation/reunion between myself and ###. We went our separate ways a few months ago. I'd like to try again. Thank you.
 
We come before the throne of grace with heavy hearts for the wounds you carry—wounds inflicted by cruel words that have lingered like a shadow over your life. The enemy has sought to use your father’s hurtful declarations to bind you in fear, shame, and a spirit of rejection, but we declare in the mighty name of Jesus Christ that *no weapon formed against you shall prosper* (Isaiah 54:17, WEB). The curses spoken over you are broken by the blood of Jesus, for *Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us* (Galatians 3:13, WEB). Those words were not from God, and they do not define your future. The Lord Himself says, *"I have loved you with an everlasting love. Therefore I have drawn you with loving kindness"* (Jeremiah 31:3, WEB). You are *fearfully and wonderfully made* (Psalm 139:14, WEB), and your worth is found in Christ alone.

We must address something with love but firmness: your request for reconciliation with this person must be examined through the lens of Scripture. You mentioned past romantic relationships ending in rejection, and now you seek to reunite with someone you were previously separated from. We urge you to ask: *Is this relationship honoring to God?* Are you both believers, committed to pursuing holiness and marriage as God designed it—a covenant between one man and one woman for life (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6, WEB)? If this person is not a believer, Scripture is clear: *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). A relationship outside of God’s will—no matter how deeply felt—will only lead to more pain. If there was fornication (sex outside of marriage) in this relationship, we must repent and turn away from it, for *"the body is... for the Lord, and the Lord for the body"* (1 Corinthians 6:13, WEB). God’s design for intimacy is within marriage alone, and anything outside of that is sin that grieves His heart.

If this person *is* a believer and you are both walking in obedience to Christ, then we pray for wisdom, healing, and godly counsel. But if this relationship has been marked by unbelief, compromise, or sin, we must surrender it to the Lord and trust Him to either restore it *in His way and timing* or redirect your heart toward His perfect will. Remember, *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart"* (Psalm 37:4, WEB). Sometimes, the desire He fulfills is not the one we initially sought but the one He knows is best for our eternal good.

Now, let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we lift up Your beloved child before You, broken by the lies of the enemy spoken through their father’s mouth. Lord, we break every curse of rejection, loneliness, and shame in the name of Jesus Christ. We declare that *"the tongue has the power of life and death"* (Proverbs 18:21, WEB), and we speak *life* over this soul—life in abundance, love that reflects Your heart, and a future filled with Your promises. Father, heal the deep wounds of rejection. Replace the lies with Your truth: that they are *chosen, holy, and dearly loved* (Colossians 3:12, WEB). Let them see themselves through Your eyes—not as abandoned, but as *adopted into Your family* (Ephesians 1:5, WEB).

Lord, we ask for discernment regarding this past relationship. If it is not Your will, give them the strength to release it fully into Your hands. If there is sin to repent of, convict their heart and lead them to true repentance. If this relationship *can* be restored in a way that honors You, then soften hearts, bring reconciliation, and build it on the foundation of Christ. But above all, Father, let their greatest desire be *You*. Satisfy them with Your love so that no earthly relationship becomes an idol. Prepare them for the godly spouse You have ordained if that is Your plan, and let them walk in purity, patience, and faith until that day.

We rebuke the spirit of fear and rejection in Jesus’ name. We command every stronghold of unworthiness to be demolished by the power of the Holy Spirit. Fill them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7, WEB). Let them walk in the confidence that *"the one who is in them is greater than he who is in the world"* (1 John 4:4, WEB).

Finally, Father, we pray that if they have not yet surrendered their life fully to Jesus Christ, that today would be the day of salvation. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9, WEB). Let them know that true love, acceptance, and belonging are found in You alone.

In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.

Beloved, we encourage you to immerse yourself in Scripture, especially verses that affirm your identity in Christ (Ephesians 1-2, Psalm 139). Seek godly counsel from a pastor or mature believer who can walk with you in this season. If you are not already part of a Bible-believing church, we urge you to find one where you can grow in community. And remember: God’s timing is perfect. Trust Him, even when the path feels lonely. He is preparing something beautiful for those who wait on Him (Isaiah 64:4, WEB). Stay steadfast in prayer, and do not lose heart.
 
We're here for you, dear friend. We've been praying for you, and we want you to know that you're not alone in this. We're standing with you, believing with you for a breakthrough.

We understand the pain of words spoken in anger, the sting of rejection, and the longing for love and acceptance. But remember, those words, no matter how hurtful, don't define you. You are a child of God, loved, chosen, and precious in His sight (1 Peter 2:9). He has a purpose and a plan for you, and nothing can separate you from His love (Romans 8:35-39).

We've been praying for healing, for the wounds to be mended, and for the spirit of rejection to be broken off your life. We declare that you are free, loved, and worthy of God's best. We also pray for wisdom and discernment in your past relationship. If it's not God's will, we ask for strength to let it go and trust Him for something better.

In the meantime, let's focus on growing in Him. Spend time in His word, seek godly counsel, and surround yourself with a community of believers who can encourage and support you. And remember, God's timing is perfect. Trust Him, even when it's hard. He's working behind the scenes, preparing something beautiful for you (Isaiah 64:4).

Keep your heart open, and keep seeking Him. He's right there with you, loving you every step of the way. We're here for you, praying for you, believing with you. You're not alone.
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
❤️ May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request for healing and deliverance according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

🙏 Prayer Focus: God, You are the great Physician, Healer, and Deliver. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name, have mercy on all those I know who stand in need of healing and deliverance (including myself). Heal and deliver each of us from the top of our heads to the souls of our feet. Heal and deliver us of every sickness in our bodies and from every spirit the enemy of our souls has sent in our lives on assignment to steal, kill, destroy, and to prohibit us from having a close everlasting intimate relationship with You. God thoroughly wash, cleanse, purify, and restore each of us. Touch our hearts, minds, and bodies. Let each of us personally experience the transformative work of Your Holy Spirit, bringing healing, deliverance, wholeness, strength, and restoration to every area of our bodies and lives. God all that I have asked of You in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of this prayer. Thank You Jesus. Amen, so be it by faith!

Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.


 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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