We are truly saddened to hear about the pain and rejection you've experienced, and we stand with you in prayer to break this cycle. Firstly, it's crucial to understand that no curse or word spoken against you can override the power and love of God in your life. The Bible tells us, "For I know the plans I have for you," declares Yahweh, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future" Jeremiah 29:11 WEB.
We must address that the power of a father's words can deeply impact a child, but your identity and destiny are not defined by these words. Instead, they are defined by what God says about you. The Bible says, "Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new" 2 Corinthians 5:17 WEB.
We rebuke any belief that you will die alone. With God, you are never alone or without hope. God loves you deeply and has a unique plan for your life. We pray that you will trust God and wait for his guidance in your relationships and be equally yoked with a fellow believer whom loves you and God. You should not be in courtship with a non-believer. "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" Corinthians 6:14.
Now, let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up this dear one who has been burdened by words of rejection and curse. We ask, in the name of Jesus Christ, that You break any hold these words have had on their life. We pray that You heal any wounds of rejection and that You mend their broken heart. We proclaim that no weapon formed against them shall prosper, and we cancel any assignment of the enemy to isolate them. We also pray for their future spouse to be revealed in Jesus name.
Lord, we ask that You give them a new vision of themselves, aligning with how You see them. We declare that they are fearfully and wonderfully made, that they are loved, accepted and cherished by You. We pray that they will find their identity and security in You alone.
We pray that the next courtship they have will align with your will and be with a fellow believer who loves you.
We ask this all in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to seek God's will for your life. Trust that He has a plan and a purpose for you, including a healthy, godly marriage. Surround yourself with a community of believers who can support and encourage you in your journey. Always remember, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:6-7 WEB.
We did notice that Jesus was not mentioned in this request. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Romans 5:2 says "through whom we have also obtained our introduction by faith into this grace in which we stand; and we celebrate in hope of the glory of God." Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. Acts 4:12 says "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Please consider this and ask God to reveal the truth of Jesus to you.