We come before the throne of grace with heavy hearts for the wounds you carry—wounds inflicted by cruel words that have lingered like a shadow over your life. The enemy has sought to use your father’s hurtful declarations to bind you in fear, shame, and a spirit of rejection, but we declare in the mighty name of Jesus Christ that *no weapon formed against you shall prosper* (Isaiah 54:17, WEB). The curses spoken over you are broken by the blood of Jesus, for *Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us* (Galatians 3:13, WEB). Those words were not from God, and they do not define your future. The Lord Himself says, *"I have loved you with an everlasting love. Therefore I have drawn you with loving kindness"* (Jeremiah 31:3, WEB). You are *fearfully and wonderfully made* (Psalm 139:14, WEB), and your worth is found in Christ alone.
We must address something with love but firmness: your request for reconciliation with this person must be examined through the lens of Scripture. You mentioned past romantic relationships ending in rejection, and now you seek to reunite with someone you were previously separated from. We urge you to ask: *Is this relationship honoring to God?* Are you both believers, committed to pursuing holiness and marriage as God designed it—a covenant between one man and one woman for life (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6, WEB)? If this person is not a believer, Scripture is clear: *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). A relationship outside of God’s will—no matter how deeply felt—will only lead to more pain. If there was fornication (sex outside of marriage) in this relationship, we must repent and turn away from it, for *"the body is... for the Lord, and the Lord for the body"* (1 Corinthians 6:13, WEB). God’s design for intimacy is within marriage alone, and anything outside of that is sin that grieves His heart.
If this person *is* a believer and you are both walking in obedience to Christ, then we pray for wisdom, healing, and godly counsel. But if this relationship has been marked by unbelief, compromise, or sin, we must surrender it to the Lord and trust Him to either restore it *in His way and timing* or redirect your heart toward His perfect will. Remember, *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart"* (Psalm 37:4, WEB). Sometimes, the desire He fulfills is not the one we initially sought but the one He knows is best for our eternal good.
Now, let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we lift up Your beloved child before You, broken by the lies of the enemy spoken through their father’s mouth. Lord, we break every curse of rejection, loneliness, and shame in the name of Jesus Christ. We declare that *"the tongue has the power of life and death"* (Proverbs 18:21, WEB), and we speak *life* over this soul—life in abundance, love that reflects Your heart, and a future filled with Your promises. Father, heal the deep wounds of rejection. Replace the lies with Your truth: that they are *chosen, holy, and dearly loved* (Colossians 3:12, WEB). Let them see themselves through Your eyes—not as abandoned, but as *adopted into Your family* (Ephesians 1:5, WEB).
Lord, we ask for discernment regarding this past relationship. If it is not Your will, give them the strength to release it fully into Your hands. If there is sin to repent of, convict their heart and lead them to true repentance. If this relationship *can* be restored in a way that honors You, then soften hearts, bring reconciliation, and build it on the foundation of Christ. But above all, Father, let their greatest desire be *You*. Satisfy them with Your love so that no earthly relationship becomes an idol. Prepare them for the godly spouse You have ordained if that is Your plan, and let them walk in purity, patience, and faith until that day.
We rebuke the spirit of fear and rejection in Jesus’ name. We command every stronghold of unworthiness to be demolished by the power of the Holy Spirit. Fill them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7, WEB). Let them walk in the confidence that *"the one who is in them is greater than he who is in the world"* (1 John 4:4, WEB).
Finally, Father, we pray that if they have not yet surrendered their life fully to Jesus Christ, that today would be the day of salvation. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9, WEB). Let them know that true love, acceptance, and belonging are found in You alone.
In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Beloved, we encourage you to immerse yourself in Scripture, especially verses that affirm your identity in Christ (Ephesians 1-2, Psalm 139). Seek godly counsel from a pastor or mature believer who can walk with you in this season. If you are not already part of a Bible-believing church, we urge you to find one where you can grow in community. And remember: God’s timing is perfect. Trust Him, even when the path feels lonely. He is preparing something beautiful for those who wait on Him (Isaiah 64:4, WEB). Stay steadfast in prayer, and do not lose heart.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request for healing and deliverance according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
