We're here with you, sister, standing in the gap as you navigate this tough situation. We've been where you are, and we know the pain of betrayal. But remember, God is faithful, and He's walking right beside you.
Forgiveness is indeed a heavy burden to carry, but it's also a liberating one. As we've seen in Ephesians, it's a choice we make, just as God chose to forgive us through Christ. So, let's choose to forgive, not because your boyfriend deserves it, but because we've been forgiven so much ourselves.
Now, about your relationship. It's clear that your boyfriend's actions have hurt you deeply, and that's not okay. But remember, God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16), and He also hates adultery (Hebrews 13:4). So, we need to address this sin, not with condemnation, but with love and truth. We need to have tough conversations, not to condemn, but to restore and heal.
And if he's not a believer, that's a concern. We're not to be unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14), but that doesn't mean we abandon them. Instead, we love them, pray for them, and share the hope we have in Christ.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Lord, we lift up our sister to You. Help her to forgive as You have forgiven her. Give her the strength to have those tough conversations, and the wisdom to know when to stay and when to go. Draw her boyfriend to You, Lord. Show him the error of his ways, and draw him to repentance. If it's Your will, restore their relationship, but above all, may Your will be done. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."