Prayer to reconcile
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We join you in lifting up this request for reconciliation, and we are grateful that you have acknowledged the name of Jesus in your prayer, for it is only through Him that we can approach the Father. As it is written, *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). We also rejoice that you have faith in His power to heal and restore, for *"all things are possible for one who believes"* (Mark 9:23, WEB).
However, we must address something important in your request. You have not mentioned whether this couple is married, courting with the intention of marriage, or if they are in a relationship that does not honor God’s design. Scripture is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, intended to reflect Christ’s love for His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If this couple is not married, we urge them to examine their relationship in light of God’s Word. Living together, emotional or physical intimacy outside of marriage, or any relationship that does not align with biblical principles is not pleasing to God. *"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed is undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). If there is fornication or any other sin involved, true reconciliation cannot happen without repentance. *"If we say that we have fellowship with him and walk in the darkness, we lie, and don’t tell the truth. But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ, his Son, cleanses us from all sin"* (1 John 1:6-7, WEB).
If this couple is married, then we stand firmly on the truth that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16) and calls husbands and wives to love, forgive, and submit to one another in Christ. *"Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:32, WEB). Reconciliation begins with humility—each must be willing to confess their faults, seek forgiveness, and extend grace. *"Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective"* (James 5:16, WEB).
If this couple is not married but courting with the intention of marriage, we pray they would honor God in their relationship, keeping it pure and centered on Christ. Courtship should be a time of seeking God’s will together, growing in faith, and preparing for a Christ-centered marriage. *"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s"* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB).
Now, let us pray together for this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this couple to Your throne of grace. Lord, if they are married, we ask that You soften their hearts toward one another. Convict them of any pride, bitterness, or unforgiveness that stands in the way of reconciliation. Help them to humble themselves, confess their sins to one another, and seek forgiveness as You have forgiven them in Christ. Restore their love, renew their commitment, and let their marriage be a testimony of Your redeeming power. *"Above all these things, walk in love, which is the bond of perfection"* (Colossians 3:14, WEB).
If this couple is not married, Father, we pray that You would expose any sin in their relationship that does not honor You. Bring conviction where there is compromise, and lead them to repentance. If they are courting, give them wisdom to build a relationship founded on Your Word, with purity, patience, and a shared desire to glorify You. If they are in a relationship that does not align with Your will, Lord, we ask that You would break their hearts for what breaks Yours. Draw them to Yourself, and give them the strength to walk away from anything that dishonors You. *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB).
Lord, we also pray for the one who submitted this request. If they are a friend or family member interceding, give them wisdom to speak Your truth in love. If they are part of this couple, open their eyes to any areas where they need to align their life with Your Word. Fill them with Your peace, and let them trust in Your perfect timing and plan.
We rebuke any spirit of division, pride, or hardness of heart in Jesus’ name. Let Your love and truth prevail. *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). May this situation bring glory to Your name, and may all involved be drawn closer to You.
In Jesus’ mighty and holy name, we pray. Amen.
However, we must address something important in your request. You have not mentioned whether this couple is married, courting with the intention of marriage, or if they are in a relationship that does not honor God’s design. Scripture is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, intended to reflect Christ’s love for His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If this couple is not married, we urge them to examine their relationship in light of God’s Word. Living together, emotional or physical intimacy outside of marriage, or any relationship that does not align with biblical principles is not pleasing to God. *"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed is undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). If there is fornication or any other sin involved, true reconciliation cannot happen without repentance. *"If we say that we have fellowship with him and walk in the darkness, we lie, and don’t tell the truth. But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ, his Son, cleanses us from all sin"* (1 John 1:6-7, WEB).
If this couple is married, then we stand firmly on the truth that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16) and calls husbands and wives to love, forgive, and submit to one another in Christ. *"Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:32, WEB). Reconciliation begins with humility—each must be willing to confess their faults, seek forgiveness, and extend grace. *"Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective"* (James 5:16, WEB).
If this couple is not married but courting with the intention of marriage, we pray they would honor God in their relationship, keeping it pure and centered on Christ. Courtship should be a time of seeking God’s will together, growing in faith, and preparing for a Christ-centered marriage. *"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s"* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB).
Now, let us pray together for this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this couple to Your throne of grace. Lord, if they are married, we ask that You soften their hearts toward one another. Convict them of any pride, bitterness, or unforgiveness that stands in the way of reconciliation. Help them to humble themselves, confess their sins to one another, and seek forgiveness as You have forgiven them in Christ. Restore their love, renew their commitment, and let their marriage be a testimony of Your redeeming power. *"Above all these things, walk in love, which is the bond of perfection"* (Colossians 3:14, WEB).
If this couple is not married, Father, we pray that You would expose any sin in their relationship that does not honor You. Bring conviction where there is compromise, and lead them to repentance. If they are courting, give them wisdom to build a relationship founded on Your Word, with purity, patience, and a shared desire to glorify You. If they are in a relationship that does not align with Your will, Lord, we ask that You would break their hearts for what breaks Yours. Draw them to Yourself, and give them the strength to walk away from anything that dishonors You. *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB).
Lord, we also pray for the one who submitted this request. If they are a friend or family member interceding, give them wisdom to speak Your truth in love. If they are part of this couple, open their eyes to any areas where they need to align their life with Your Word. Fill them with Your peace, and let them trust in Your perfect timing and plan.
We rebuke any spirit of division, pride, or hardness of heart in Jesus’ name. Let Your love and truth prevail. *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). May this situation bring glory to Your name, and may all involved be drawn closer to You.
In Jesus’ mighty and holy name, we pray. Amen.
We join you in praying for reconciliation, dear friend. We've been thinking about your request and wanted to add our voices to the conversation. We believe in the power of prayer and trust that God can work wonders in any situation.
Firstly, we want to echo the sentiments of the previous reply, acknowledging the mighty name of Jesus in your prayer. It's through Him that we find hope and healing. We're also encouraged by your faith in His ability to restore and mend broken relationships.
Now, we'd like to share a verse that's been on our hearts: "For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." (Matthew 6:14-15, WEB). We believe that true reconciliation begins with forgiveness, both towards others and towards ourselves.
We also want to remind you, and perhaps the couple in question, of the importance of communication. Sometimes, we hold onto hurts and grievances because we're afraid to express them. But God calls us to be open and honest with one another, as it says in Ephesians 4:15, "Instead, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way more and more like Christ." (WEB)
Let's also remember that God is always ready to listen and help. He wants the best for us and desires for our relationships to be healthy and whole. So, let's trust in His timing and His plan.
We pray that this couple would find healing and restoration, that they would be able to forgive and be forgiven, and that their relationship would be a testament to God's grace and love. We also pray for you, dear friend, that you would find peace and strength in this situation.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Firstly, we want to echo the sentiments of the previous reply, acknowledging the mighty name of Jesus in your prayer. It's through Him that we find hope and healing. We're also encouraged by your faith in His ability to restore and mend broken relationships.
Now, we'd like to share a verse that's been on our hearts: "For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." (Matthew 6:14-15, WEB). We believe that true reconciliation begins with forgiveness, both towards others and towards ourselves.
We also want to remind you, and perhaps the couple in question, of the importance of communication. Sometimes, we hold onto hurts and grievances because we're afraid to express them. But God calls us to be open and honest with one another, as it says in Ephesians 4:15, "Instead, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way more and more like Christ." (WEB)
Let's also remember that God is always ready to listen and help. He wants the best for us and desires for our relationships to be healthy and whole. So, let's trust in His timing and His plan.
We pray that this couple would find healing and restoration, that they would be able to forgive and be forgiven, and that their relationship would be a testament to God's grace and love. We also pray for you, dear friend, that you would find peace and strength in this situation.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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We want to thank you for allowing us the honor of lifting up your heart before the Father as you seek reconciliation in this relationship. It has been our privilege to stand with you in prayer, asking God to soften hearts, bring humility, and restore what was broken after that difficult weekend. We know how deeply painful division can be, especially when pride or hurt feelings stand in the way of healing—and we’ve been earnestly praying that the Lord would remove every barrier, giving both of you the courage to confess, listen, and extend grace to one another.
If God has already begun to mend this relationship, we would love to rejoice with you! Even the smallest step toward reconciliation is worth celebrating as His faithfulness at work. Please share a praise report so we can give Him glory together.
If the silence or tension still feels heavy, we want you to know we’re not letting go. Sometimes healing takes time, and the enemy loves to whisper that things will never change—but we serve a God who specializes in redemption. Post your request again as a new prayer, and we will continue to contend with you, believing for breakthrough. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and He is able to do far more than we ask or imagine.
May you sense His peace guarding your heart as you trust Him in this. We’re standing with you, clinging to the hope that what was fractured will be made whole in His perfect timing. Praying for you in Jesus’ name.
If God has already begun to mend this relationship, we would love to rejoice with you! Even the smallest step toward reconciliation is worth celebrating as His faithfulness at work. Please share a praise report so we can give Him glory together.
If the silence or tension still feels heavy, we want you to know we’re not letting go. Sometimes healing takes time, and the enemy loves to whisper that things will never change—but we serve a God who specializes in redemption. Post your request again as a new prayer, and we will continue to contend with you, believing for breakthrough. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and He is able to do far more than we ask or imagine.
May you sense His peace guarding your heart as you trust Him in this. We’re standing with you, clinging to the hope that what was fractured will be made whole in His perfect timing. Praying for you in Jesus’ name.
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