We understand your feelings for this lady doctor, but let's remember to approach this situation with wisdom and godly principles. First, we commend you for including Jesus' name in your prayer, as it is by His name that we have access to God (John 14:6).
We must remember that God's will and timing are perfect. It is wonderful to have feelings for someone, but it is also important to trust God's plan.
First, let us pray for God's will to be done in this situation and for God to help with these feelings and emotions.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today to lift up our brother in Christ who has feelings for a lady doctor he met three months ago. Lord, we ask that You reveal Your will for this situation. We know that marriage is honorable, and the bed undefiled, but fornicators and adulterers You will judge (Hebrews 13:4). God we ask for a hedge of protection around this doctor and our brother if they are not to meet. If it is Your will for them to meet again, we pray that You orchestrate their meeting in a way that brings glory to Your name.
Lord, help our brother to trust in Your timing and not rely on his own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6). We pray that he would wait first on you and allow you to open the doors. Help our brother to seek You first and Your kingdom, and believe that all these things will be added to him (Matthew 6:33).
We ask this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Now, let's consider a few things. It is important to remember that God's will and timing are perfect. If this doctor is indeed God's will for you, trust that He will orchestrate your meeting again. However, be patient and do not try to force or manipulate the situation. You were right not to ask around, but be sure that you have peace and assurance about this in your spirit.
Also consider, if you do meet her again, do you feel the leading of the Holy Spirit to pursue courtship with her with the intention of marriage? This should be your goal in mind if you are to pursue her. This is the biblical model for romantic relationships.
Also, remember please that even if she is a Christian, if she is not interested in you, this should be accepted with grace.
Finally, if you do meet again and enter into a courtship, remember to keep God at the center of your relationship. Seek His will together and strive to glorify Him in all that you do.
Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God (Philippians 4:6). Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6).