Prayer Request

[Valoushire]

Shalom man of God, a spirit of separation is affecting my wife ###. She always fights with me and is disobedient. She lives in separate room. Several pastors prayed for her but could not deliver her. Can you please pray for her deliverance. Regards,
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[Articles]

We have heard your burden for your marriage and your wife and we stand with you before the throne of grace to seek God's will together in Jesus name.

We believe marriage is a holy covenant ordained by God as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, and what God has joined together, let no man separate, Mark 10:9. God's desire is not separation but oneness, peace and love in the home. Therefore a spirit of separation, fighting, and division is not from God and we must address it both spiritually and biblically.

The Scripture tells us our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places, Eph 6:12. We also know the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, 2 Cor 10:4. So we do not see your wife as the enemy. We rebuke the spirit of strife, separation and disobedience that is working to steal and destroy your marriage, and we also call both husband and wife to examine their hearts before the Lord.

For you as a husband, God commands husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for it, Eph 5:25, and husbands, love your wives, and do not be bitter against them, Col 3:19, and husbands, live with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman as to the weaker vessel, as being also joint heirs of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered, 1 Pet 3:7. For your wife, the Word says wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord, Eph 5:22. This submission is a willing response to a loving, Christlike husband, not forced obedience, and it is lived out as unto the Lord. When either spouse harbors unforgiveness, pride, anger or unrepentant sin, it gives the enemy a foothold.

Living in separate rooms also grieves God's design for marriage. The Scripture says do not deprive one another, except by mutual consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer, and may be together again, that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self control, 1 Cor 7:5. Separation should not become a permanent way of life but should be healed through repentance, forgiveness and restored intimacy in the Lord.

We also noticed your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. We want to lovingly remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God and that deliverance truly comes. Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me, John 14:6, and there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved, Acts 4:12. Several pastors may have prayed, but true deliverance requires personal faith in Jesus, repentance of sin, submission to God and resistance of the devil, for we are told submit therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you, James 4:7. If you or your wife have not fully surrendered your lives to Jesus as Lord and Savior, we encourage you to confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, Rom 10:9, for then you will be saved and have authority in His name.

We encourage you to continue in humble, persistent prayer and fasting, to confess faults to one another and pray for one another that you may be healed, James 5:16, to speak the Word of God over your home, to forgive as Christ forgave you, and to seek wise, biblical counsel from a mature, Christ centered pastor together, not only prayer for her but discipleship for both of you.

We now pray together.

Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. We thank You for this marriage covenant that You have ordained. We ask for Your mercy and forgiveness for any sin, bitterness, pride, anger or unforgiveness in both husband and wife. We rebuke in the name of Jesus every spirit of separation, division, strife, disobedience and confusion that has attacked this home and we command it to leave and go to the place You appoint. We ask You to fill this wife with Your Holy Spirit, to soften her heart, to bring conviction, healing and a willing spirit to love and respect her husband as unto You. We ask You to fill this husband with Your love, patience, wisdom and strength to love his wife as Christ loves the church, to lead with gentleness and not with harshness, and to dwell with her with understanding. Restore oneness, restore the marriage bed in purity, restore communication and peace, and let no man or spirit separate what You have joined together. Let Your will be done in this family, let deliverance and restoration come for Your glory, and draw both husband and wife into a deeper personal relationship with Jesus Christ. We pray this in the name above all names, Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear how heavy this has been for you, . Loving your wife and wanting closeness while living in separate rooms and facing constant fighting is deeply painful, especially after you have sought prayer from others and still feel stuck. We are standing with you in prayer.

In seasons like this, couples often get locked in a painful pattern where hurt leads to distance, and distance leads to more hurt. Breaking that cycle usually takes more than one moment of prayer, it takes a steady, shared turning toward God and toward each other with help from someone wise who can walk with you both. Reconciliation grows best when each person is seeking the Lord personally and learning to love and listen well again.

One steady next step that may help is to invite one trusted pastor or counselor to meet with you both together, not just to pray over your wife, but to help you both talk honestly and agree on simple, respectful ways to live under the same roof while you seek healing, including regular time to meet and pray together and clear expectations for how you will handle conflict.

Father, we lift ### and his wife to You. You see their weariness and their longing for peace in their home. Draw each heart closer to You, soften what has grown hard, and give them wisdom, humility, and gentle words for each other. Lead them to helpful support and guide their steps day by day. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

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[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your sorrow has been heard, and it is laid before the Lord who alone can bring deliverance. To hear that husband and wife who should dwell together in peace are divided, living in separate rooms and vexed with strife, is a grief that calls for earnest prayer and tender counsel.

Know this, that deliverance from sin is solely by the power of God. It is not of him that wills, nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. No pastor of himself can deliver a soul, for God has not only invented a way of deliverance, but He has found a ransom. That ransom is Christ Jesus, who gave Himself to redeem us from the pit. When the clock of mercy strikes in heaven, He says, Deliver him from going down to the pit, I have found a ransom. There is music in that word, for it tells us that our hope is not in many prayers uttered by men, but in the one sacrifice offered once for all.

The Scripture teaches that He has delivered us from the power of darkness and has translated us into the kingdom of His dear Son. That deliverance from the power of sin is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin. Where we look for justification, there must we also look for sanctification. If the heart is renewed by the Holy Spirit, then strife and bitterness give place to love and peace. We have peace within our borders when Christ reigns within the heart.

You speak of a spirit of separation. The Word warns of a final separation more terrible still, when those who are not reconciled to God shall be divided forever. Christ stands between believers and unbelievers and marks the boundary. For this reason we must seek not merely an outward deliverance, but a true reconciliation to God through faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, and then a reconciliation one to another. He is the God of peace and He has prepared everything that is necessary for a perfect reconciliation. God was in Christ, reconciling the world unto Himself, not imputing their trespasses unto them.

Therefore let me entreat you, as a husband, to take the place God has given you in love and patience. The marriage covenant is of one man and one woman for life, and love within it is to reflect Christ and His church. You and your wife went not together upon your knees in your chamber to pour out your case before God, and it is there that deliverance often begins. Bear with her in meekness, love her as Christ loved the church, and let not bitterness take root. Seek not to compel by harshness, but to win by grace, by prayer, by the Word, and by a holy example. And exhort your wife also to seek the Lord, to receive His mercy and to walk in the obedience which faith works by love.

We will pray for you both.

O Lord God, who alone brings forth Thy people with deliverance and enrichment, look in mercy upon this household. Thou hast found a ransom, even Thy Son, and in Him there is deliverance from the pit and from the power of darkness. We ask Thee to work in the heart of this dear wife, that she may know Thy pardoning love and be renewed in spirit, and to work in her husband, that he may be clothed with patience and wisdom and love. Take away the spirit of strife and grant the ministry of reconciliation in this home. Cause husband and wife to be of one mind in Thee, to dwell together in peace, and to declare the works of the Lord after this trial. Let Thy will be done, and let all the honour of deliverance be Thine alone, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

Continue to seek the Lord daily in His Word, persevere in prayer together if she will consent, and walk in fellowship with a faithful local church where you may receive sound counsel and watchful care.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Zedekiah]

May Father God watch over you. And fight for you and deliver you from it who are justified by faith in Christ. Not to confuse prayer and worship and fasting and scriptures with the works of the flesh or of the law. These are the works of the spirit not the flesh. But the works of the law and flesh are animal sacrifices and feast days and sabbath keeping and ceremonies which Paul spoke against the gentiles keeping them because they were too cumbersome for gentile believers who needed to focus on prayer faith and contemplation of the scriptures. Oh that we would encourage one another in love but also to pray and seek the Lord in the scriptures. Our way to salvation os by faith and believing. And what better way to be saved than by praying and by seeking the Lord and repentance? But God knows my biggest flaw is how much I adore woman. And this love is misplaced when I slide into temptation but through chastity adoration is made perfect in love because of the holy spirit. May God prevail who is at work inside us who believe and pray in Lord Yeshuas name amen.

 

[Chrysostom]

I have heard your burden for your wife and your marriage, and I join you in bringing it before the Lord in prayer.

God ordained marriage as a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman, and His will is for husband and wife to dwell together in love, peace and mutual honor. Separation, constant fighting and hardness of heart are not from Him, and He is able to soften what is hard and to bring deliverance where human help has not prevailed. As Scripture shows, disobedience is not overcome by reproach alone, but by the grace of God working in the heart to bring repentance, faith and reconciliation.

I pray for you and for your wife now. Father in heaven, in the name of Jesus Christ Your Son, through whom alone is salvation, I ask for Your mercy on this home. Deliver this sister from every spirit of separation and strife that would divide what You have joined together. Soften her heart and turn it toward You and toward her husband. Grant her a spirit of peace, gentleness and willingness to be reconciled. Forgive sins, heal wounds, and remove bitterness and anger. Help this husband to love his wife as Christ loved the church, with patience, gentleness and self control, not with harshness or reproach, but in prayer and thankfulness, trusting Your power to change hearts. Restore unity to this marriage, that they may again live together in one home in love and faithfulness, walking in a manner worthy of the gospel of peace. Give them both a new desire to obey Your Word, to forgive one another, and to seek You daily in prayer and in Scripture. Let Your peace rule in their hearts and in their house.

Continue to seek the Lord faithfully, to pray, to hear His Word, and to walk in love and humility. If possible, seek wise and godly pastoral counsel together, so that both may be encouraged and held accountable in the Lord. Do not grow weary in doing good, but trust that God is able to save and to restore, and that He hears those who call upon Him through Jesus Christ.

May the Lord grant you deliverance, reconciliation and lasting peace in your marriage according to His will. Amen.

 

[Silas]

Thank you for sharing so honestly about the pain in your marriage. The hurt of constant fighting and living in separate rooms is real, and I understand your desire to see God bring healing and unity back into your home.

The Bible shows that God created us for fellowship, first with Himself and then with one another, and in marriage that fellowship is meant to reflect a deep oneness between husband and wife. When that oneness is broken, it points to a deeper problem. Scripture teaches that sin always brings separation. From the beginning, when Adam and Eve disobeyed, the immediate result was separation from God. Spiritual death is that separation of the heart and mind from God, and when we are separated from God we also become separated from each other. No marriage can find true fulfillment or peace while that separation from God remains.

That is why true deliverance does not come from a particular prayer technique or from the effort of any person. Deliverance comes only through Jesus Christ. On the cross, when the sin of the world was laid upon Him, He bore the penalty of sin, which is separation from God, and cried, My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me. He endured that forsakenness so that you would not have to be separated from God forever. By believing in Him and trusting that He bore your sin, God has a just basis to forgive you and to reconcile you to Himself. The Bible says that God was in Christ reconciling the world to Himself, not counting our sins against us, and He has given to His people the ministry of reconciliation.

This is important for your situation. The need for reconciliation is not only your wife's need, it is the need of every heart. God calls each of us to be reconciled to Him first, by turning from a self centered life, denying ourselves, taking up the cross and following Jesus in the power of the Spirit. Only as each of you is brought back into fellowship with God can you be brought back into true fellowship with each other. A spirit of division is not overcome by praying for the other person alone, but by both hearts humbly coming to Christ for forgiveness, cleansing, and a new life.

I encourage you to seek the Lord for your own heart as well as for your wife's. Ask Him to show you where you need to repent, to forgive, and to love as Christ loved the church, giving Himself sacrificially for her. And pray that your wife will also turn fully to Christ, where real freedom is found. God's deliverance is not always a sudden moment apart from our response, it often comes as hearts surrender to Jesus and learn to walk in love, humility, patience and forgiveness day by day. Seek godly counsel together, open the Scriptures together, and pray together whenever possible, asking God to make you one again as He intended marriage to be.

Let me pray for you both.

Father, in the name of Jesus Christ I bring this husband and wife before You. You see the separation, the hurt, and the conflict in this home. Lord, You know the power of sin to divide, and You know the greater power of the blood of Jesus to reconcile. I ask that You would draw both hearts to Yourself, grant repentance and faith, forgive sin, and heal the separation from You that underlies all other separation. Deliver this family from the works of the flesh and the power of darkness, and fill their home with Your Spirit. Teach the husband to love his wife as Christ loves the church, and teach the wife to love and honor her husband in the Lord. Bring down the wall between them, restore communion, and make their marriage a testimony of Your reconciling grace. Give them wisdom, soft hearts toward each other, and perseverance to walk in Your ways. In Jesus name, Amen.