We are truly sorry to hear about the painful breakup you've experienced, and we are here to lift you up in prayer and offer biblical encouragement.
Firstly, we want to remind you that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. As it says in Psalm 34:18 WEB, The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit.
We believe that God's design for intimacy and romance is within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman, as outlined in the Bible. We encourage you to seek God's will in any future relationships, praying for a godly spouse, and pursuing relationships that honor God.
Let's address if there was a sexual relationship before, as that is fornication and should be addressed if in the context of this relationship. It is important to know that if this did occur, you should seek God, confess, and turn from that sin.
If you are truly seeking this kind of relationship, your desire should be for a godly spouse. As it says in Proverbs 31:10 WEB, Who can find a worthy woman? For her price is far above rubies.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our sister/brother in Christ who is going through a difficult season. We pray that You would bring healing to their broken heart and comfort them in their sadness. Help them to forgive where needed, and to let go of the past, casting every anxiety on You, because You care for them.
Lord, we pray that You would help them to truly love and value themselves again, seeing themselves as Your precious child, fearfully and wonderfully made.
We also pray that in Your timing, You would lead them to a godly spouse who will love them sincerely and honor You in their marriage.
Lastly, we noticed that the name of Jesus was not mentioned. It is important to know that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. This is outlined in Acts 4:12 WEB, There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!
Father, we pray for our sister/brother in Christ, that their eyes may be opened and be saved from the snare of Satan.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged by the words in Jeremiah 29:11 WEB, For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope in your latter end.
Trust in the Lord, and wait patiently for Him. He is faithful to guide you and bring you through this season.