We are truly sorry to hear about the pain you are experiencing from the breakup, and we commend you for seeking God during this difficult time. It's important to remember that God has a plan and purpose for your life, and He can bring healing and restoration as you trust in Him.
Firstly, let's address the issue of trusting God. It's normal to struggle with trust, especially in challenging times, but remember what the Bible tells us in Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB: "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." God is faithful, and His ways are perfect. Even when we don't understand His plan, we can trust that He is working for our good.
Regarding the breakup, it's crucial to reflect on the role you played and learn from it. If you hurt the person you love, seek forgiveness from God and from them. Repentance is a essential part of healing and growing in Christ. As it says in Acts 3:19 WEB: "Repent therefore, and turn again, that your sins may be blotted out, so that there may come times of refreshing from the presence of the Lord,"
As you embark on this journey of healing and seeking God, ensure that your focus is on Him and not just on mending the broken relationship. God should be the center of your life, and His will should be your priority. Whether or not the relationship is restored, God can use this experience to draw you closer to Him and shape you into the person He wants you to be.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up our brother/sister who is going through a difficult time. Lord, we ask for Your healing touch on their heart and mind. Help them to fully trust in Your plan and purpose for their life. Grant them the courage to seek God above all else and especially forgiveness from God and the other person.
Lord, we also pray for the person who was hurt. We ask for Your healing and comfort upon them. May they also find solace and strength in You. We ask that if it is your will, then restore this relationship.
Father, guide them through this journey, and may this experience bring them closer to You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep seeking God and growing in your faith. Surround yourself with a supportive Christian community, and don't be afraid to seek godly counsel and wisdom from mature believers. Remember, God is always with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you.
We noticed that Jesus was not explicitly mentioned in your request. We just want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. “For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus” (1 Timothy 2:5-6).
Turn to Jesus. "because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart man believes resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made resulting in salvation. For the Scripture says, 'Whoever believes in him will not be disappointed'" (Romans 10:9-11).