We hear your burden for these stepchildren and we join together with them in seeking the Lord for protection, deliverance and truth. What you describe is deeply serious and the Word of God speaks very clearly about it. The practices of medicine men, medicine women and wicca are not harmless traditions or alternative healing, they are forms of sorcery and witchcraft which God forbids.
There shall not be found with you anyone who makes his son or his daughter to pass through the fire, one who uses divination, one who practices sorcery, or an enchanter, or a sorcerer, or a charmer, or a consulter with a familiar spirit, or a wizard, or a necromancer. For whoever does these things is an abomination to Yahweh Deuteronomy 18:10-12. Also Do not turn to those who are mediums, nor to the wizards. Do not seek them out, to be defiled by them Leviticus 19:31. And we are told plainly that sorcery is among the deeds of the flesh Galatians 5:20 and that those who practice such things will not inherit God’s Kingdom Galatians 5:21.
We must also lovingly rebuke the father in this situation. For a father to say he does not care if his wife practices witchcraft around his children is a failure to protect and shepherd his household as God requires. Fathers are called to bring children up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord Ephesians 6:4 and to have no fellowship with the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but rather to reprove them Ephesians 5:11. To expose children to these practices and to even take a child to a medicine woman is to open a door to spiritual harm, and we grieve that addiction and sickness have followed. While addiction and illness have natural and physical causes that need godly counsel, medical help and accountability, we also know our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places Ephesians 6:12.
For the stepchildren who feel sick, afraid, and bound by alcohol addiction, we want to encourage them that they do not have to remain under fear or oppression. Greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world 1 John 4:4. If they will submit themselves to God, they can resist the devil and he will flee from them James 4:7. The weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds 2 Corinthians 10:4. No weapon that is formed against you will prevail Isaiah 54:17. They are to put on the whole armor of God that they may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil Ephesians 6:11 and to abide in Christ daily through prayer, reading Scripture, and fellowship with a Bible believing church.
We counsel these young ones not to return to any medicine man or medicine woman again and not to participate in any ritual, charm, or ceremony their stepmother offers, even if pressured. They should honor their father Ephesians 6:1 as far as they can, but we must obey God rather than men Acts 5:29 when asked to do what God forbids. They should set clear and respectful boundaries, tell a trusted pastor or mature Christian leader what has happened, seek help for the alcohol addiction with Christian counseling and medical support, and pray continually for their stepmother and father rather than seeking revenge, for vengeance belongs to the Lord Romans 12:19.
We also notice this request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we must speak plainly about this because there is no other way to be saved or to have access to the Father. Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6. There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. If anyone confesses with their mouth that Jesus is Lord and believes in their heart that God raised him from the dead, they will be saved Romans 10:9. It is only through faith in Jesus that we have authority to be delivered from darkness and to be called children of God.
We pray together now.
Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, Your Son, and we lift up these stepchildren to Your throne of grace. We ask You to cover them with the blood of Jesus and to place Your hedge of protection around their bodies, minds and spirits. We ask You to break every chain of addiction, every assignment of sickness and every influence that came through contact with witchcraft and sorcery. Lord, set them free, for whom the Son sets free is free indeed. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, give them a spirit of power and love and self control 2 Timothy 1:7, and lead them into sobriety, health and wholeness. We ask You to convict their stepmother of her sin and bring her to repentance and to the saving knowledge of Jesus, that she may turn from darkness to light. We pray for their father, that You would awaken him to his responsibility to protect his children and to lead his home in righteousness, and we pray that this marriage would either be brought into obedience to Christ or that You would protect these children from further harm. Teach these precious ones to dwell in the secret place of the Most High and to abide under Your shadow Psalm 91:1, to walk in Your light and to know that You are near to the brokenhearted Psalm 34:18. We declare that no weapon formed against them will prosper and that You will restore what the enemy has stolen. We ask all this in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and only Savior, amen.
We encourage these children to continue to pray daily in Jesus name, to read the Scriptures aloud in their home, to sing praises to God, and to refuse fear, for God has not given us a spirit of fear. If the oppression or addiction continues, let them seek a godly pastor to pray with them in person and to walk with them toward freedom and healing. The Lord is faithful and He will not forsake those who seek Him.