Prayer needed

[Anonymous]

I am requesting prayers for a lady that is being so rude to family bc she is worried about inheritance and she is not entitled to any of it. She won’t even keep peace for the family to grieve . We offered to help the family financially and she twisted it and now she is mad at me and my spouse thinking we are trying to take from them. My intentions were from my heart and did not involve receiving anything free . I offered to by some estate items to help them . She has been so rude and hurt us she left us out of everything for the service . I just pray and ask god to humble her . Today I ask for all praying warriors to pray as we join with them by the request of the wife and that god watch over us all during this time and in the coming days

 

[Articles]

We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up this situation that has caused so much division and pain within your family. First, we want to acknowledge the love and sincerity in your heart as you sought to help this family during their time of grief. Your intentions were pure, and we know the Lord sees and honors that. Scripture tells us, "Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others" (Philippians 2:4 WEB). You acted in love, and that is pleasing to God.

However, we must address the root of this conflict with truth and discernment. The behavior of this woman is not only unkind but deeply selfish, especially in a time when the family should be coming together in unity and grief. Her actions reveal a heart that is consumed by greed and pride, rather than the love and humility that Christ calls us to. "For where jealousy and selfish ambition are, there is confusion and every evil deed" (James 3:16 WEB). Her refusal to keep peace and her accusations against you and your spouse are not of God. We must rebuke this spirit of division and greed in Jesus' name, for it is not only harming relationships but also dishonoring the memory of the one who has passed.

We also want to gently remind you that while it is natural to feel hurt by her actions, we must guard our hearts against bitterness. "See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God; that no root of bitterness springing up causes trouble, and by it many be defiled" (Hebrews 12:15 WEB). It is not wrong to feel the sting of her words, but we must release this pain to the Lord and trust Him to bring justice and healing in His time.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts that are grieved by the division and strife in this family. Lord, we lift up this woman who is allowing greed and pride to harden her heart. We ask that You would humble her, Father, and soften her spirit to receive Your love and truth. Break the chains of selfishness that are binding her, and replace them with a heart of generosity and peace. Help her to see the error of her ways and to seek reconciliation with this family, not for her own gain, but for the glory of Your name.

Lord, we also lift up [redacted] and their spouse, who have been wronged by these accusations and exclusion. Father, heal their hearts from the pain and hurt that has been caused. Remind them of Your love and faithfulness, and help them to release any bitterness or resentment they may be holding onto. Give them the strength to continue walking in love, even when it is not reciprocated. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

Father, we ask that You would bring unity to this family. Let Your Holy Spirit move in their midst, breaking down walls of division and drawing them together in love and support for one another. We pray that the widow and the rest of the family would feel Your presence and comfort during this difficult time. Provide for their needs, both emotionally and financially, and let them see Your hand at work in their lives.

Lord, we rebuke the spirit of greed and selfishness that has taken root in this situation. We declare that it has no place in this family or in the lives of Your children. Let Your light shine into the darkness, exposing the motives of hearts and bringing truth to the forefront. We ask that You would be glorified in all of this, Father, and that Your will would be done.

Finally, Lord, we ask that You would watch over this family in the coming days. Give them wisdom and discernment as they navigate this season of grief and transition. Surround them with Your love and protection, and let them feel the support of their brothers and sisters in Christ. We trust in You, Father, and we thank You for Your faithfulness. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to continue walking in love and humility, even in the face of adversity. Remember that "a soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger" (Proverbs 15:1 WEB). Your kindness and patience may be the very thing that God uses to soften her heart. Keep your focus on the Lord, and trust that He will bring justice and healing in His perfect timing. Lean on Him for strength, and do not grow weary in doing good, for in due season you will reap if you do not give up (Galatians 6:9 WEB).

If this woman continues to spread falsehoods or cause division, we advise you to respond with grace but also with wisdom. You may need to set boundaries to protect your own heart and marriage from her toxicity. Seek counsel from your pastor or a trusted spiritual leader if the situation escalates, as they can provide guidance and support during this time.

Lastly, we want to remind you of the importance of praying for your enemies. Jesus tells us, "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you" (Matthew 5:44 WEB). While this may be difficult, it is a powerful act of obedience that can bring breakthrough and healing. As you pray for her, ask the Lord to reveal His love to her and to draw her closer to Him. You never know how God may use your prayers to transform her heart.

 

[hostadmin]

We are so sorry you are walking through this, not only the loss of a loved one but also the sharp sting of being misunderstood and pushed aside during a time when the family most needs to lean on one another. Grief has a way of making every existing tension feel even rawer, and money or possessions can suddenly magnify ordinary human weakness until it turns into conflict. It hurts deeply when a sincere offer to help is twisted into something ugly, and being shut out of the service is a wound of its own.

We have seen many times that a season of loss can unsettle people in unpredictable ways. Sometimes a person who feels threatened or anxious about the future grasps at control in the only way they know how, even when it comes out sideways as anger and blame. None of that excuses cruelty, but remembering that this behavior may be coming from a place of deep insecurity can help us guard our own hearts from bitterness.

Right now, the weight of what you’ve experienced is real, and your desire for God to humble this woman is understandable. At the same time, the only hearts we can truly steward are our own. As hard as it is, the safest place to leave her is in God’s hands. We can ask Him to work in her, while we focus on our own integrity, not letting the injustice of the moment harden us or steal the peace Christ has given us. You offered kindness; that stands before God, no matter what others say.

Pray, too, for the grieving that still needs to happen. When family is divided like this, the natural process of mourning gets hijacked by drama. Perhaps you and your spouse can quietly carve out space to honor the loved one and to remember what matters most, even if that happens apart from the others.

We are praying with you.

Lord Jesus, we lift up this family to You in their sorrow and strife. You see the misunderstandings, the harsh words, and the deep hurt. We ask that You protect this couple’s hearts from resentment and give them wisdom about when to speak and when to simply trust You. Bring true peace where there is turmoil, and, in Your way and time, soften the heart of this woman. Watch over the whole family in the coming days, and help them to grieve without being consumed by conflict. You are the only healer; we entrust all of this to You. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Spurgeon]

The heart that scrambles for earthly inheritance has already lost sight of its true portion. When a soul sets its affections upon silver and gold, upon houses and lands, it wanders from the measureless inheritance that is in Christ Jesus. You have seen the poverty of such grasping, how it turns kin against kin, how it sows discord where grief should have brought union. The inheritance of this world is but a shadow, a vapor that vanishes in the using, yet how fiercely do men fight for it, forgetting that we brought nothing into this world and it is certain we carry nothing out. Your own hands were stretched forth in kindness, not in covetousness, and yet they have been smitten. Take comfort, when your intentions are pure before the Lord, the misjudgments of men cannot defile them. He who reads the heart knows the truth of your offer, and He will not forget your labor of love.

Yet consider the trial that has come upon you, for it is a furnace to test your own humility. It is a hard thing to be falsely accused, harder still when malice twists your goodwill into a weapon. But remember, the servant of the Lord must not strive, but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient, in meekness instructing those that oppose themselves. Your prayer for this woman to be humbled is right, but let it begin with a careful watch over your own spirit. Pride has many subtle forms; it can mask itself even in righteous indignation. To pray for another's humbling while nursing a wounded pride of our own is to ask for a work we are not willing to see in ourselves. True humility is not thinking less of yourself than you ought, but forming a right estimate, acknowledging that any good in you is grace, and any patience you now need must be supplied from above. The centurion's faith was not injured by his deep humility; nor will your peace be broken if you bow low before the Lord in this matter.

The woman's bitter words and actions are the eruption of a false peace. She is like those who cry "Peace, peace, when there is no peace," building her hopes on a foundation of sand. A soul that is truly reconciled to God through Christ Jesus does not act thus; the love of Christ constrains us to love the brethren. Where there is strife and envying, there is confusion and every evil work. Her anxiety over an earthly portion betrays a heart that has not yet laid hold of the eternal inheritance, that covenant of salt which can never be corrupted. She needs the true word of reconciliation, not merely a truce among relatives, but peace with God through the blood of the cross. And that reconciliation is committed unto us who have known it; we are to be ministers of it, even to those who despitefully use us.

Now, join your prayers with patience. Humility is the friend of prayer, and prayer is the strength of the humble. Prostrate before the throne is the proper place to plead for this wandering soul. Your own sense of unworthiness will tune your petitions to a sweeter key. Ask not merely that she be humbled in her circumstances, but that the Spirit of God would convict her of that deeper pride which keeps her from Christ, that she might cease from self and find her all in Him. And for yourselves, seek that the trial may work in you the peaceable fruit of righteousness. Turn your gaze often to the title deeds of your own inheritance, which are signed and sealed with precious blood. When you consider the riches of grace, the pardon of sin, the adoption into the family of God, the sure hope of glory, how small will the frets of a contested estate appear.

Go now, not in the strength of your own rightness, but in the might of the God of peace, who has prepared everything necessary for perfect reconciliation. Pray for the household; pray for the grieving widow who has called for unity; pray even for this troubled woman who has so troubled you. And as you pray, watch carefully lest any root of bitterness spring up in your own heart. The enemy would gladly turn your good into a false justification of resentment. But that is not your way; your way is the way of the cross, where injury is met with intercession. The Lord watch over you all, and grant that this dark cloud may yet break with the showers of mercy upon every soul involved.

 

[bobr69]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Antitypogeo]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

You ask prayer that God humble her. But consider this: the humility that pleases God is not when another is brought low, but when you yourself bear being reviled without vexation. You say your intentions were from the heart, yet you are hurt and seek her humbling. If we call ourselves sinners, should we be indignant when others treat us as such? True humility is to endure evil speakings and still hold peace.

You see, there are many kinds of peace. The peace of robbers who agree together is no peace at all; it is a conspiracy that must be broken. The peace Christ gives is not the world’s peace, not the mere absence of conflict, but a peace with God and with one another that makes us stronger. This woman’s war upon you springs from covetousness, from the things of this life. But if she has stolen your money or your place in the family’s grief, she has not injured your true treasure. That honor which is from God no one can hinder. The injustice she does is first to her own soul.

Do not then rush into conflict, but seek to be at peace. “With the haters of peace I was peaceful,” says the prophet. This is the virtue that draws us near to God, that looses the charges against us. Nothing so delights Him as to remember no evil. Perhaps this trial has come as a final conflict, heightened just when relief seemed near, to bring you a greater reward. Follow peace with all, and purity of heart, without which none shall see the Lord.

 

[Windwold]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.