We understand that you're feeling uncertain about the situation with this Christian guy you've been talking to, and it's important to approach this with God's wisdom and guidance. Firstly, let's address the fact that you didn't mention any use of Jesus name in this request. It is only by His name that we can approach God the Father. Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. There is no other name by which we can be saved. For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus. Let's keep that in mind as we pray and discuss your request.
In moments like these, it's crucial to find peace in God alone, rather than in the outcome of a relationship. As it says in Isaiah 26:3 WEB You will keep whoever's mind is steadfast in perfect peace, because he trusts in you. Trust in Yahweh forever; for in Yah, Yahweh, is an everlasting Rock. We encourage you to focus on your personal relationship with the Lord, as He is the ultimate source of peace and clarity.
Regarding your relationship with this Christian guy, we advise you to ensure that your interactions remain pure and honoring to God. Since you have been speaking, make sure and examine if your conversations have been above approach. If you both are believers, then your goal should be to determine if you both should be in courtship to marry rather than just to have a dating relationship. We are to flee sexual immorality and keep our relationships with the opposite sex in preparation for marriage. Remember, 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB says 'Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but whoever commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.'
It's also important to pray for God's will to be done in this situation. We should not be seeking our desires but His. In Philippians 4:6-7 WEB it says, In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who seeks peace and clarity. Lord, we ask that You grant her Your perfect peace, reminding her that You are in control of every circumstance. Guide her steps and help her to trust in You completely. If it is Your will, Lord, bring clarity to this situation, and help her to seek Your face and Your purpose for her life. Help her to keep her mind and body pure and holy, fleeing any sexual immorality, as Your word instructs. We ask that Your will be done in her life and in the life of the Christian guy she has been talking to. Help them both to seek You and Your kingdom first, trusting that You will provide all that is needed including a spouse if that be Your will. In Jesus Christ name we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, and remember to keep your focus on the Lord. He is faithful to guide you and lead you in His perfect will.