We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up the souls of those who have tragically passed in this devastating situation. First, we must address the reality of what has occurred—not only the loss of life but the grave nature of murder and suicide, which grieve the heart of God. The Bible tells us in **1 John 3:15 (WEB)**, *"Whoever hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life remaining in him."* And in **1 Corinthians 3:16-17 (WEB)**, we read, *"Don’t you know that you are a temple of God, and that God’s Spirit lives in you? If anyone destroys God’s temple, God will destroy him; for God’s temple is holy, which you are."* Suicide is a destruction of God’s temple, and we must acknowledge the severity of this sin while still praying for mercy.
Yet we also know that **Ezekiel 18:23 (WEB)** declares, *"Have I any pleasure in the death of the wicked?” says the Lord Yahweh; “and not rather that he should return from his way, and live?"* God’s heart is one of redemption, and we trust in His mercy for those who have passed, even in such tragic circumstances. We pray that if there was any moment of repentance, any cry for forgiveness before their last breath, that the Lord in His infinite grace would receive them. But we must also be honest—sin separates us from God, and without repentance and faith in Jesus Christ, there is no salvation.
We lift up the surviving family members, who are left to grapple with unimaginable pain, confusion, and grief. **Psalm 34:18 (WEB)** tells us, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* We pray that they would feel the nearness of God in their suffering, that He would bind up their wounds and draw them close to Himself. May they find comfort not in the ways of the world, but in the hope of the Gospel.
We also pray for the mother who took her own life. The weight of her actions is heavy, but we know that **Lamentations 3:22-23 (WEB)** says, *"It is because of Yahweh’s loving kindnesses that we are not consumed, because his compassion doesn’t fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness."* If she knew the Lord, we trust in His mercy. If she did not, we pray that the family would have opportunities to share the truth of salvation with others who may be struggling with similar despair.
Most importantly, we must address the necessity of faith in Jesus Christ. There is no peace, no rest, no mercy apart from Him. **John 14:6 (WEB)** declares, *"Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.’"* If these souls did not know Christ, we grieve, for **Hebrews 9:27 (WEB)** reminds us, *"It is appointed for men to die once, and after this, judgment."* But if they did, we trust in the promise of **John 3:16 (WEB)**, *"For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life."*
We pray now for the family, that they would turn to Jesus in their grief, that they would find hope in His resurrection, and that they would be surrounded by believers who can walk with them in truth and love. We pray against the spirit of despair that may seek to take hold of them, and we declare that **2 Corinthians 1:3-4 (WEB)** is true: *"Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort; who comforts us in all our affliction, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, through the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God."*
Lord, we ask that You would bring healing to this broken family. Surround them with Your love, Your peace, and Your people. Help them to see Your hand at work even in this darkness, and give them the strength to walk forward in faith. We pray for any who do not know You, that they would come to repentance and believe in Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior. We ask that You would break the chains of sin and death in this family line, that future generations would know You and walk in Your ways. Comfort them, Father, and let them feel Your presence in a tangible way. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.