Prayer For Reconciliation

[Beachrock732]

Over a year ago, my fiance had ended our relationship and it almost wiped me out on every level, emotionally, spiritually and even physically, I loved her very much. After our breakup we were still in touch however, I was so distraught, I made accusations that she must have been unfaithful, accused her of cheating and on and on. I had even deceived her friend into trying to obtain information one time which she found out about which only increased her animosity. I have hurt deeply over all of this for a year now and the pain doesn't go away. I have tried one or two times to reconcile with her as brother and sister in Christ not on a relationship level but she won't even consider speaking to me either in email or in person. I have apologized to her for my actions and have been praying God will open an opportunity for reconciliation but nothing ever happens. I am wondering if God is telling me that reconciliation will not happen with her in this life and if I should just stop trying and hoping for an opportunity to speak with her again. It's like an open wound that pierces my soul every day and I have to find some kind of "closure" in this.

Thanks......................

 

[Thaddo1018]

My dear friend, this story is all too familiar to me, and others I know. To lose someone you love is a pain unlike anything else. But I promise, you can regain your strength. You must realize, as hard as it may be, that the Lord should always be your top priority, as difficult as it is sometimes. When you realize that the Lord Jesus comes first, He will bless you. For now, I would leave the situation alone, and stop contacting her. It has been proven many times that if the Lord wants it to be so, He will bring her back to you. I will pray for you, I promise. God bless.

 

[Beachrock732]

Thank you!

 

[gm254]

Father, your child is hurting and reaching out to you today.

Holy Spirit, minister to him concerning his situation, heal him personally and help him be at peace with himself and with you. Lord, only you know the future, please guide your child on what he should do concerning his situation. We pray that you give him joy over his life.

Father let him know his issues are of concern to you

Psalm 56:8— You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book.

Psalm 55:22— Pile your troubles on God's shoulders he'll carry your load, he'll help you out. He'll never let good people topple into ruin.

Lord, heal and bind up his wounds, make his path straight, reveal your plans to him which are full of hope and may his sorrow turn into abundant joy.

In Jesus name.

Amen!

 

[Beachrock732]

Thank you everyone for the kind words and support but mostly, thank you ALL for your prayers!!!!!