We join you in lifting up this matter before our Heavenly Father, for we know that all good things come from Him, and it is by the name of Jesus Christ alone that we have access to the throne of grace. We are grateful to hear your acknowledgment of Jesus in your prayer, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, and it is only through Him that our petitions are heard.
The financial struggles you describe are deeply concerning, particularly the lack of control and unreasonable demands from extended family. Scripture warns us against the love of money and the dangers of financial mismanagement, but it also speaks to the importance of stewardship, wisdom, and setting boundaries. Proverbs 22:7 reminds us, *"The rich rule over the poor. The borrower is servant to the lender."* When finances are controlled by others—especially in ways that are unjust or manipulative—it can lead to bondage rather than the freedom God intends for His children. We must also consider 1 Timothy 5:8, which says, *"But if anyone doesn’t provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever."* Your responsibility is first to your immediate family, and it is not wrong to establish godly boundaries to protect what the Lord has entrusted to you.
If there has been financial exploitation or coercion, this is not only unwise but unjust, and Scripture calls us to act with integrity and justice. Proverbs 13:11 states, *"Wealth gained dishonestly dwindles, but he who gathers by hand makes it grow."* If what was taken was done so through deception or pressure, we pray that the Lord exposes and restores what has been wrongfully taken. However, we also encourage you to examine whether there have been any enabling behaviors or lack of wisdom in financial decisions. Proverbs 21:5 tells us, *"The plans of the diligent surely lead to profit; and everyone who is hasty surely rushes to poverty."* It is wise to seek counsel—whether from a trusted pastor, financial advisor, or godly mentor—to help establish healthy financial practices and boundaries moving forward.
As for the restoration of what has been lost, we trust in the Lord’s provision and justice. Joel 2:25-26 declares, *"I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten... and you will have plenty to eat, and be satisfied."* Yet we must also remember that restoration does not always come in the form we expect. Sometimes, the Lord provides through new opportunities, wisdom, or changed hearts. Other times, He calls us to trust Him in the lack, knowing that He is our ultimate Provider. Matthew 6:33 reminds us, *"But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."*
We also sense a need to address the mention of "mine and my ###'s finances." If this refers to a relationship outside of marriage, we must lovingly but firmly remind you that Scripture is clear: financial entanglements with someone who is not your spouse can lead to complications and sin. If you are not married, we urge you to seek the Lord’s will for a godly, covenantal marriage—one man and one woman, committed before God. Until then, keep your finances separate, for *"Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?"* (Amos 3:3). If this is a marriage, then we pray for unity and wisdom between you and your spouse to manage finances in a way that honors God.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this brother/sister who seeks Your protection and provision over their finances. Lord, You are Jehovah Jireh, our Provider, and nothing escapes Your sight. You see the struggles, the unjust demands, and the financial bondage that has weighed heavily on this family. We ask for Your divine intervention—restore what has been wrongfully taken, Lord, whether through changed hearts, exposed deception, or supernatural provision. Give them wisdom to establish godly boundaries and the courage to stand firm in stewardship, for it is Your will that they provide for their household with integrity and diligence.
Father, if there has been any financial mismanagement or enabling of ungodly control, convict and correct them by Your Holy Spirit. Teach them to be diligent, to save wisely, and to seek counsel from those who walk in Your truth. Break any chains of manipulation or greed that have bound them, and let Your justice prevail. If this involves a relationship that is not honoring to You, Lord, we pray for repentance and a return to Your design for marriage and family.
We declare Your promise over them: *"The Lord will open to you his good treasure in the sky, to give the rain of your land in its season, and to bless all the work of your hand: and you will lend to many nations, and you won’t borrow"* (Deuteronomy 28:12). Let them experience Your restoration, Your peace, and Your provision in ways that bring glory to Your name. Guard their hearts from bitterness or fear, and let them trust in You alone.
In the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
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