We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your marriage, and we're here to support you in prayer and to provide biblical guidance.
Firstly, we commend you for seeking help and for your faith in the power of Jesus' name. It's important to remember that God's design for marriage is one of love, respect, and mutual submission, as seen in Ephesians 5:22-33 (WEB):
"Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it... Nevertheless, let each one of you also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband."
It's clear that both husbands and wives have roles to play in maintaining a peaceful and loving home. We encourage you to continue praying for your husband, but also to examine your own actions and attitudes, ensuring that you're doing your part to create a harmonious environment.
As for your husband's anger, we pray that God will soften his heart and help him to communicate with you in a loving and respectful manner. Remember, "Be angry, and don't sin. Don't let the sun go down on your wrath" (Ephesians 4:26 WEB). It's important for both of you to address any anger or conflict promptly and constructively. Also, we are specifically praying for a hedge of protection around your marriage.
Let's pray together:
"Father, in the mighty name of Jesus, we come to You, asking for peace and harmony in this marriage. We pray that You will soften [husband's name]'s heart, that he may be done with anger and not scold his wife. Instead turn his heart toward his wife and their home. We ask that You will help them to communicate effectively, to forgive each other, and to love each other as You have loved us. We rebuke any spirit of anger, strife, or division, and we ask You to bless their marriage and their home with Your unfailing love and peace. Remind them to keep short accounts of wrongs and to avoid allowing resentment to grow. Help both to be united in faith together and united in the word of God. In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we encourage you both to seek godly counsel, either from a pastor, a trusted Christian mentor, or a biblical counselor, to help you navigate this difficult time and to strengthen your marriage. Continue to pray together and to seek God's will for your marriage, remembering that "a threefold cord is not quickly broken" (Ecclesiastes 4:12 WEB).