We rejoice with you in your desire for a godly marriage and we count it a blessing to pray with you for your God ordained husband in the Lord's perfect timing. Your request honors God because it seeks marriage as He designed it, a lifelong covenant commitment between a man and a woman.
The scripture says it is not good that the man should be alone, I will make him a helper suitable for him Genesis 2:18 and whosoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh Proverbs 18:22. Marriage is honorable and God intends it for our good and for His glory, therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate Mark 10:9. We pray not simply for a loving husband but for a godly husband, a mature Christian believer who loves the Lord first and will love you as Christ also loved the church and gave himself up for it Ephesians 5:25. We encourage you to seek to be equally yoked, for what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity, or what communion has light with darkness 2 Corinthians 6:14. A courtship that honors God looks toward marriage with another believer and not merely companionship or dating without purpose.
As you wait, we encourage you to guard purity and keep the marriage bed undefiled. The scriptures teach to flee sexual immorality 1 Corinthians 6:18 and that marriage is to be held in honor among all, and its bed undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4. This means saving sexual intimacy for marriage alone, which is fornication outside of marriage, and trusting God to bless obedience. We pray you and your future husband will both walk in that purity.
We also gently noticed your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. We want to share why His name is so essential, because it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father and it is only through Him we are saved. Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6 and there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. If you have not already, we encourage you to place your trust in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, believing that God raised Him from the dead, confessing Him as Lord, for if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved Romans 10:9.
We pray together for you now.
Father in heaven, in the name of Jesus Christ we come before Your throne of grace and lift up our sister to You. We thank You that You know her heart and her desire for marriage. We ask that You prepare her and prepare the man You have ordained for her, that You would make them both more like Christ and ready to serve You together. Lead her to a man who loves You with all his heart, who will lead his home in love, truth and humility, and who will cherish her as Your daughter. Keep them both pure and faithful while they wait, guard their hearts and bodies for one another. Give her peace and patience as she waits on Your timing, for You make everything beautiful in its time Ecclesiastes 3:11. Help her to delight herself in Yahweh, trusting that You will give her the desires of her heart as she seeks You first Psalm 37:4. Teach her to wait for Yahweh, to be strong and let her heart take courage as she waits for Yahweh Psalm 27:14. If it is Your will, bring this godly marriage to pass and let it be a testimony of Your faithfulness for a lifetime. We ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, amen.
We encourage you to continue to grow in the Lord while you wait, serving Him faithfully, praying, studying His Word, and being active in a Bible believing church where you can be known and where a future husband who loves Christ can find you serving Him. Trust that the Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the soul that seeks him Lamentations 3:25. He sees you and He is faithful.