We understand your situation, and we want to lift you up in prayer and provide some biblical guidance. It's important to remember that God's design for marriage is that the husband should be the head of the wife, as the church is the head of Christ. (Ephesians 5:23 WEB)
Firstly, let's pray for your job search:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ to ask for your guidance and provision in finding the right job. Lord, you know the desires and needs, and we trust that you have the perfect position. Please open the doors of opportunity and give wisdom to discern the right path. In Jesus name, we pray for a job that will bring joy, be a light to the world, and provide for the needs of the household. (Matthew 6:11 WEB)
Now, let's address the concerns in your marriage. It's clear that there are struggles with roles and leadership in your home.
Let's pray for a wife as the Scriptures guide us:
Dear Heavenly Father, we pray for wives to be loving, respectful, and supportive, as your Word instructs. (Ephesians 5:33, 1 Peter 3:1-2 WEB) Help the wife to understand and embrace her role in the marriage, allowing the husband to lead as you have ordained. We pray that God will restore the peace and harmony that was intended in marriage as set by your Holy Word. We pray that the Holy Spirit will soften hearts that may be hardened and give guidance and understanding of the Biblical role of a wife and a husband. We rebuke any spirit of discord or strife that may be causing unrest in this marriage. (Proverbs 31:10-31 WEB)
We encourage you to love your wife as Christ loved the church and gave himself for it, (Ephesians 5:25 WEB). Examples of Christ include washing the feet of his disciples, interceding for them, and a sacrificial example of love on the cross.
It's crucial to discuss with your wife the biblical principles of marriage. Explain that your desire is to follow God's design for your family and that you need her support and cooperation. Approach this conversation with love, patience, and understanding, as our ultimate example is Jesus Christ.
Remember to have daily prayer together and possibly a short Bible study. It is our responsibility to follow the example of Christ and the instructions of God.