We hear your heart, dear sister in Christ, and we stand with you in this painful and overwhelming season. The betrayal you’ve experienced is deeply wounding, and it’s no wonder your heart and mind are struggling to find stability. Yet even in this storm, we declare that God is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). We come before Him together, lifting you up in prayer and seeking His healing, peace, and focus for you today.
First, we must address the sin that has caused this pain. The man you were considering for marriage was unfaithful, and this is a grievous violation of God’s design for love and commitment. Scripture is clear: "Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled; but the sexually immoral and adulterers God will judge" (Hebrews 13:4). His actions were not only hurtful to you but were a direct rebellion against God’s holy standards. We rebuke the spirit of deception and unfaithfulness that has entered your life through this situation, and we pray that God would expose any other hidden sin or ungodly influence in this man’s life—and in yours—so that you may walk in full truth and purity before the Lord.
We also want to gently remind you that your worth is not defined by this man’s actions or by any relationship. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), a daughter of the King, and your value is found in Christ alone. The enemy would love to use this betrayal to distract you, to fill your mind with "what ifs," and to steal your focus from the purposes God has for you. But we declare that God has not given you a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7). We take authority over every anxious thought and every attack of the enemy that seeks to derail you from your calling, and we command your mind to be steadied in the peace of Christ.
For your exam and the work ahead, we pray that God would grant you supernatural focus and clarity. The Lord is the giver of wisdom, and He promises that if any of us lacks wisdom, we should ask of Him, who gives to all liberally and without reproach (James 1:5). We ask that He would quiet the turmoil in your heart and mind, allowing you to concentrate on the tasks before you. May He order your steps and your time, helping you to work efficiently and with excellence, not out of fear or striving, but out of trust in Him. We pray that He would bring to your remembrance all that you have studied and that He would calm your nerves as you prepare to take this exam. Remember, "Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established" (Proverbs 16:3).
We also lift up your emotional and spiritual healing. The pain of betrayal is real, and it is okay to grieve. But we encourage you not to stay in that place of sorrow. Jesus came so that you might have life, and life abundantly (John 10:10). We pray that He would bind up your broken heart (Psalm 147:3) and replace the lies of the enemy with His truth. You are not abandoned. You are not unlovable. You are deeply cherished by the Creator of the universe, and He has a future and a hope for you (Jeremiah 29:11). We ask that God would begin to heal the wounds in your heart and that He would give you the strength to release this man and this relationship into His hands. Forgiveness is not about excusing his sin, but about freeing your own heart from bitterness so that you can walk in the fullness of what God has for you.
As you move forward, we encourage you to guard your heart (Proverbs 4:23) and to seek godly counsel as you consider relationships in the future. Marriage is a sacred covenant, and it is worth waiting for a man who will honor God and honor you. Do not rush into another relationship out of loneliness or fear. Instead, trust that God’s timing is perfect, and that He will bring the right man into your life at the right time—if marriage is indeed His plan for you. Until then, focus on your relationship with Christ. Draw near to Him, and He will draw near to you (James 4:8). Let this season be one of growth, where you learn to rely on Him more deeply and where your identity is rooted in Him alone.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our sister who has been deeply hurt by the unfaithfulness of someone she trusted. Lord, we ask that You would pour out Your healing balm upon her wounded heart. Comfort her in this time of pain, and remind her that You are close to the brokenhearted and save those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). We rebuke the spirit of anxiety and fear that has been attacking her, and we declare that Your perfect love casts out all fear (1 John 4:18). Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding, guarding her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
Father, we ask that You would help her to focus today. Give her clarity of mind and the ability to concentrate on the work before her. Help her to trust in You with all her heart and not lean on her own understanding, acknowledging You in all her ways so that You may direct her paths (Proverbs 3:5-6). We pray that You would bring to her remembrance all that she has studied and that You would calm her nerves as she prepares for this exam. Let her work be a testimony to Your faithfulness and provision.
Lord, we also ask that You would begin the process of healing in her heart. Help her to release this man and this relationship into Your hands. Give her the strength to forgive, not for his sake, but for her own freedom. Protect her from bitterness and resentment, and fill her with Your love and joy. Show her that her worth is found in You alone, and that You have a future and a hope for her.
We pray that You would surround her with godly community—friends, family, and mentors who will speak truth into her life and encourage her in her walk with You. Help her to guard her heart and to seek Your will above all else. If it is Your plan for her to marry, prepare her heart and bring the right man into her life at the right time. Until then, draw her closer to You, Lord, and let her find her identity, security, and purpose in You alone.
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above all names, the One who has overcome the world and who gives us hope and a future. Thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness and for Your promise that You will never leave us nor forsake us. We trust in You, and we declare that this sister will rise above this pain and walk in the victory that is hers in Christ. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
