We join you in lifting up this need for clear and timely communication, recognizing that God cares deeply about every detail of our lives. It is good that you prayed in the name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we can approach the throne of God with confidence. As it is written, *"Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it"* (John 14:13-14, WEB).
However, we must also consider the heart behind our prayers. While it is natural to desire a swift response, we encourage you to examine whether this request aligns with God’s will and purpose for your life. Are you seeking this communication for godly reasons—perhaps for reconciliation, truth, or the advancement of His kingdom? Or is there an underlying anxiety or impatience that needs to be surrendered to the Lord? *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB).
If this email pertains to a relationship, we urge you to ensure that it honors God’s design. If this is a courtship, is it with a fellow believer who shares your commitment to Christ and to biblical marriage? Are you both seeking God’s will for a future that glorifies Him? If there is any hint of emotional dependency, manipulation, or a desire that does not align with Scripture—such as pursuing a relationship outside of God’s design for marriage between one man and one woman—we must lovingly but firmly rebuke such intentions. *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). If this communication involves someone of the same sex in a romantic context, we must remind you that such relationships are explicitly forbidden in Scripture. *"Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit God’s Kingdom"* (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, WEB). Repentance and alignment with God’s Word are essential for His blessing.
Let us pray together for this situation, trusting in God’s perfect timing and wisdom:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this need for clear and timely communication. Lord, You know the hearts of all people, and You see the intentions behind this request. We ask that You move in the heart of ### to read and respond to this email according to Your will. If this communication is for Your glory and the good of Your kingdom, we pray that You would open the doors and provide clarity. Remove any obstacles, whether spiritual, emotional, or practical, that may be hindering this exchange.
But Father, we also surrender this desire to You. If there is any motive within us that is not aligned with Your Word, we ask that You convict and correct us. Help us to trust in Your timing, knowing that You work all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). Give us patience and peace as we wait, and guard our hearts from anxiety or frustration.
If this pertains to a relationship, Lord, we pray that it would be one that honors You. If it is a courtship, may it be between two believers who are seeking Your will for marriage. If there is any sinful desire or ungodly attachment, we ask that You expose it and lead us to repentance. Help us to pursue relationships that reflect Your holiness and love.
We also pray for wisdom in how we communicate. May our words be seasoned with grace and truth, and may they bring life and not strife. *"Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one"* (Colossians 4:6, WEB).
Finally, Lord, we ask that You use this situation to draw us closer to You. May we seek Your kingdom first, trusting that all other things will be added to us as You see fit (Matthew 6:33). We commit this into Your hands, knowing that You are faithful and just.
In the precious and powerful name of Jesus we pray, Amen.