We come before the throne of grace with heavy hearts, joining our brother in his plea for mercy and restoration. It is clear that your spirit is grieved by this struggle, and we stand with you in repentance, for we know that the Lord is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). Your acknowledgment of sin and your desire to turn away from it is evidence of the Holy Spirit’s work within you, and we praise God for His convicting power.
The battle between the flesh and the Spirit is one every believer faces, as Paul so vividly describes in Romans 7:15-20: *"For I don’t know what I am doing. For I don’t practice what I desire to do; but what I hate, that I do. But if what I don’t desire, that I do, I consent to the law that it is good. So now it is no more I that do it, but sin which dwells in me. For I know that in me, that is, in my flesh, dwells no good thing. For desire is present with me, but I don’t find it doing that which is good. For the good which I desire, I don’t do; but the evil which I don’t desire, that I practice."* Yet we take heart, for there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus (Romans 8:1), and through Him, we can overcome the deeds of the flesh (Romans 8:13).
Smoking, while not explicitly named in Scripture, falls under the broader biblical principles of stewardship of the body, self-control, and honoring God with our choices. Your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20), and we are called to glorify God in our bodies. Addiction to any substance can enslave us, and the Lord desires freedom for His children (John 8:36). We must also consider the example we set for others, as 1 Corinthians 10:31 reminds us: *"Whether therefore you eat, or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God."*
You rightly quoted Isaiah 59:2, which warns that sin separates us from God: *"But your iniquities have separated you and your God, and your sins have hidden his face from you, so that he will not hear."* Yet we also rejoice in the truth of 1 John 1:9, which you mentioned, and the promise of Hebrews 4:16: *"Let us therefore draw near with boldness to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy, and may find grace for help in time of need."* Grace is not a license to sin but the power to overcome it (Romans 6:1-2). We must not take God’s mercy for granted, for He disciplines those He loves (Hebrews 12:6).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with broken and contrite hearts, lifting up our brother who is struggling with the chains of addiction. Lord, we thank You for Your unfailing love and mercy, which are new every morning (Lamentations 3:22-23). We confess that we have sinned against You by allowing the flesh to rule over the Spirit, and we ask for Your forgiveness. Cleanse us, O Lord, from all unrighteousness and create in us clean hearts (Psalm 51:10).
Father, we rebuke the spirit of addiction that seeks to enslave Your child. In the name of Jesus, we break its power and declare freedom over our brother. We pray for the Holy Spirit to fill him with strength and self-control, that he may resist temptation and walk in victory (Galatians 5:16). Lord, we ask that You would restore the joy of Your salvation to him and renew a steadfast spirit within him (Psalm 51:12).
Help our brother to flee from sin and to pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace (2 Timothy 2:22). Surround him with godly accountability and fellowship, that he may be encouraged and strengthened in his walk with You. Father, we also pray for wisdom and practical steps to overcome this habit. Whether through prayer, fasting, or seeking godly counsel, lead him in the path of righteousness for Your name’s sake.
We thank You, Lord, that You are faithful to complete the good work You have begun in us (Philippians 1:6). We trust in Your power to transform and renew our minds (Romans 12:2). May our brother feel Your presence afresh and know that You are with him, even in his weakness. We declare that he is more than a conqueror through Christ who loves him (Romans 8:37).
In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
Brother, we encourage you to take practical steps to overcome this struggle. Consider fasting from smoking as a way to draw nearer to God and rely on His strength. Replace the habit with prayer, Scripture reading, or godly fellowship. Seek accountability from a trusted believer who can pray with you and encourage you in your journey. Remember, the Lord is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).
You are not alone in this battle. The same power that raised Christ from the dead lives in you (Romans 8:11), and through Him, you can do all things (Philippians 4:13). Keep pressing forward, for the Lord is faithful, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). May you experience the fullness of His presence and the victory that is yours in Christ Jesus.