We hear your deep concern for your wife and the distress this situation is causing both of you. This is not merely a workplace issue—it touches on matters of wisdom, protection, and the sanctity of marriage as God designed it. Scripture reminds us in 1 Corinthians 10:31, *"Whether therefore you eat, or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God."* Your wife’s discomfort with traveling alone with male coworkers is not trivial; it reflects a godly desire to honor the boundaries of marriage and maintain purity in her conduct. We must also consider the principle in 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, which says, *"For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to control his own body in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, like the Gentiles who don’t know God."*
The pressure from her company to send her on these trips—despite no prior agreement and her clear discomfort—raises concerns about respect for her boundaries and the potential for compromising situations. Proverbs 22:28 warns, *"Don’t move the ancient boundary stone, which your fathers have set up."* Her initial agreement with the company did not include overseas travel, and it is unjust for them to impose this now. We must also address the spiritual weight of this burden. In Matthew 11:28, Jesus invites us, *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest."* Your wife is carrying a heavy load, and we stand with you in prayer that God would lift this weight from her.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We lift up this marriage and this situation to You, asking for Your divine intervention. Lord, You see the distress this is causing, and You care deeply for Your children. We ask that You would soften the hearts of those in authority at this company, that they would recognize the injustice of their demands and the discomfort they are causing. Father, we pray that the planned business trips to Germany, Spain, and Mexico would be canceled, and that Your daughter would no longer be required to travel overseas for work. Grant her the peace and stability to continue her work within Korea, as she originally agreed.
Lord, we also ask for Your protection over this marriage. Guard their hearts and minds from fear, anxiety, and any temptation that may arise from this situation. Strengthen their bond as husband and wife, and remind them of the covenant they share before You. Give Your daughter the courage to stand firm in her convictions, and grant her husband wisdom in how to support and advocate for her. We declare that no weapon formed against this marriage shall prosper, in accordance with Isaiah 54:17.
Father, we rebuke any spirit of manipulation or coercion that may be at work in this company. We ask that You would expose any unrighteous motives and bring them to light. Give Your daughter favor in the eyes of her employers, that they would respect her boundaries and treat her with the dignity she deserves. We also pray for her adjustment to the work environment—grant her confidence, competence, and joy in her role.
Lord, we thank You for hearing our prayer. We trust in Your faithfulness and Your perfect timing. May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified through it all. In Jesus’ name we pray, Amen.
We encourage you both to continue seeking the Lord together in this matter. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* This is a time to lean on God’s wisdom, not just your own understanding. Consider speaking with your wife’s supervisors in a respectful but firm manner, clearly communicating her boundaries and the reasons for them. If necessary, seek counsel from a trusted pastor or elder in your church who can provide godly wisdom and support.
Remember, God is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). He sees your struggle, and He will not abandon you. Stand firm in your faith, and trust that He is working even when you cannot see it. May the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
