We understand that you're seeking prayer for a situation where you feel unheard and uncared for. Firstly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as it is only through Him that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
However, we need to address something important. You've used the phrase "my ###" and "He ###" to refer to the person you're praying for. We assume that you're referring to a spouse or a potential spouse, so we will address this as such. If this person is not a spouse or potential spouse the following still applies. In the future, please use the term spouse, potential spouse, or the generic term "them" to avoid confusion and to align with biblical principles regarding marriage.
Now, let's address your concerns. It's important to remember that God calls us to love and respect each other, and this includes understanding and caring for each other's needs and wants. As it is said Ephesians 5:21 WEB "subjecting yourselves one to another in the fear of Christ."
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister/brother who feels unheard and uncared for. We pray for their spouse/potential spouse, that You would soften their heart and open their ears to the needs and wants of our sister/brother. We pray that You would help them to understand and care for each other, as You have called us to do.
We also pray for our sister/brother, that You would give them patience, wisdom, and the ability to communicate effectively. We ask that You would help them to understand their spouse's/potential spouse's perspective as well. This is so that each can understand the other.
Help them to live in harmony, being kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake has forgiven them. Ephesians 4:32 WEB
We ask all this in Jesus' name. Amen."
Lastly, we encourage you to openly communicate with your spouse/potential spouse about your feelings and needs. Do this in a respectful and loving manner, as God has called us to do. Remember that God is with you and He cares for you greatly.