We join you in lifting up this young man before the Lord, and we are grateful you have brought this request in the name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. Your heart for his obedience, discipline, and perseverance in learning is commendable, and we know these are virtues that honor God. The Scriptures remind us of the importance of diligence and focus, particularly in Proverbs 22:29, which says, *"Do you see a man skilled in his work? He will stand before kings. He won’t stand before obscure men."* Similarly, 2 Timothy 2:15 urges us to *"Give diligence to present yourself approved by God, a workman who doesn’t need to be ashamed, properly handling the Word of Truth."*
However, we must gently address that the use of "###" in place of this young man’s name or relationship to you is unclear. If this is your son, we praise God for your parental care and will pray accordingly. If this is another relationship—such as a boyfriend or a romantic interest—we must lovingly but firmly remind you that Scripture calls us to honor God in all our relationships. Courtship should be pursued only with the intent of marriage between a man and a woman who are both believers in Christ, as 2 Corinthians 6:14 warns, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* If this is not a family member, we urge you to examine whether this relationship aligns with God’s design. Fornication, emotional entanglements outside of marriage, or relationships that distract from godly priorities are not pleasing to the Lord (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5). If this is the case, we encourage you to seek God’s will for purity and wisdom in how you interact with this young man.
If this is your son, we pray earnestly for him now:
*"Heavenly Father, we thank You for this young man and the plans You have for his life. Lord, we ask that You grant him a spirit of obedience, not just to earthly authorities but ultimately to You. Instill in him a love for learning and a discipline that reflects Colossians 3:23: *'Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men.'* Protect him from distractions—whether from idle pursuits, ungodly influences, or relationships that do not honor You. Give him clarity of mind as he studies, and let his efforts be blessed with understanding and retention. May he grow in wisdom, fearing You above all else, for *"The fear of Yahweh is the beginning of knowledge"* (Proverbs 1:7). Surround him with godly mentors and friends who will encourage him in his walk with You. And if he does not yet know You as his Savior, Lord, we pray that You would draw him to Yourself, that he may confess with his mouth and believe in his heart that Jesus Christ is Lord, for *"whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved"* (Romans 10:13). Strengthen him to resist temptation and to walk in purity, keeping his eyes fixed on You. We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus, our Lord and Redeemer. Amen."*
If this young man is not your son, we urge you to prayerfully consider whether your involvement in his life is honoring to God. Are you seeking to build him up as a brother in Christ, or is there an emotional or romantic attachment that could lead to sin? If it is the latter, we encourage you to step back and ask the Lord to redirect your heart toward His will. Psalm 37:4-5 reminds us, *"Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this."* Let us seek first His kingdom and righteousness, trusting that He will guide our relationships according to His perfect plan.
May the Lord grant you wisdom and discernment as you pray and act in alignment with His Word. We are here to support you further in prayer or counsel as you seek to honor Christ in all things.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
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