Pray for this

[Dexter2020]

I thought of not showing up.

It would've been easier to disappear. To stay home. To let the noise win.

I agreed to speak at this panel months ago - way before a 45-second clip from my recruitment experience sparked an entire national conversation about Singapore's workforce and future. And made me the target of a lot of anger.

I didn't expect any of this.

The last two weeks have been hard. And I'd be lying if I said I wasn't impacted. Of course I was. There were moments I wanted to crawl into a hole and not resurface for a while.

But then I asked myself - what exactly am I running from?

At first, I asked God: Why is this happening TO me?
Then I reframed it: What if this is happening FOR me?

For a greater, common good?

How many people can say that 45 seconds of sharing their honest perspective - one I still stand by - ignited a nation-wide conversation that matters? A conversation about hunger. About drive. About what it takes to build a future worth having.

Maybe it's not a crisis. Maybe it's a privilege. Maybe it's both at the same time...

And here's the thing about valleys - they show you who your real friends are. When you're on the mountaintop, everyone wants to be near you. But in the valley? Only the real ones stay.

I will never forget the kindness shown to me these past weeks.

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Grateful to have shared the stage with ###, ### and ###. And ### - thank you for putting together such a meaningful event for ### and bringing us all together.

For the topic we explored together: "Turning Uncertainty into Opportunity." The irony isn't lost on me.

And to our moderator ### 曾依雯 - I need to say this. You held space for all of us in a way that went far beyond your role. You made every single one of us feel at ease, comfortable, and confident to share openly. I walked in shaky. I left feeling held. That's rare. Thank you for going above and beyond.

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To those who reached out, met me, prayed for me, showed up for me unconditionally - I see you. I'm forever grateful.

And to the ones who came at me with anger? I've decided to hold compassion for them too. Because hurt people hurt people. And I truly hope they find peace.

I'm still in a messy chapter. But I know it's just one chapter.

And I believe with every setback, God sets me up for something bigger.

So I showed up anyway.

Because that's what we do.

- ###

P.S. "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go." - Joshua 1:9

 

[Articles]

We hear the weight of your struggle, the exhaustion of being thrust into a storm you never asked for, and the courage it took to step onto that stage despite the noise. The enemy would love nothing more than for you to disappear—to let fear silence the voice God has given you. But you resisted that lie, and in doing so, you honored the One who called you. We stand with you in declaring that this trial is not without purpose. The same God who allowed the fire to refine you also promises to walk through it with you (Isaiah 43:2).

Your shift from asking *"Why is this happening to me?"* to *"What if this is happening for me?"* reveals a heart postured toward faith. Scripture reminds us that *"we know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose"* (Romans 8:28). The conversation you sparked—about hunger, drive, and the future—is not accidental. It is Kingdom work, even when the world distorts it. The valley you walked through exposed the faithful few who stood with you, just as Proverbs 18:24 declares: *"A man of many companions may be ruined, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother."*

We rebuke the spirit of intimidation that sought to make you shrink back. The anger directed at you is not your burden to carry; it belongs to those who wield it. As you chose compassion over bitterness, you reflected Christ’s heart: *"Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing"* (Luke 23:34). This does not mean the hurt was justified, but it means you refused to let it define you.

Most of all, we celebrate that you showed up. That act of obedience—messy, imperfect, and human—was an offering to the Lord. He does not waste our pain. Every setback is a setup for His glory, and every valley leads to a mountaintop if we keep walking. *"I will lead the blind by a way they don’t know. I will guide them in paths they don’t know. I will make darkness light before them, and crooked places straight. I will do these things, and I will not forsake them"* (Isaiah 42:16).

Let us pray:

Father, we come before You on behalf of Your servant, who has faced a storm of scrutiny and yet stood firm. Thank You for the work You are doing in and through this trial. We ask that You would continue to strengthen their heart, reminding them that You are their refuge and fortress (Psalm 91:2). Heal the wounds inflicted by words and restore what the enemy sought to steal. Let the conversations sparked by their honesty bear fruit for Your Kingdom, and let their courage inspire others to walk in boldness.

Lord, we declare that no weapon formed against them will prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We bind the spirit of fear and release Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Fill them with fresh vision for the next chapter—one where You turn their ashes into beauty (Isaiah 61:3). May they continue to walk in humility, compassion, and unwavering faith, knowing that You are with them wherever they go (Joshua 1:9).

We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who overcame the world and calls us to do the same. Amen.

You are not alone in this. The same God who parted the Red Sea for Moses and shut the lions’ mouths for Daniel is fighting for you. Keep showing up. The world needs voices like yours—unshaken by the noise, anchored in truth. *"Let your light shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father who is in heaven"* (Matthew 5:16).

 

[hostadmin]

Dear friend, we're here with you, cheering you on. It's amazing how you've turned a potential setback into a setup for something greater. You've sparked a national conversation about drive, hunger, and the future. That's no small feat! We're proud of you for showing up, messy and imperfect, but brave and honest. Remember, every valley leads to a mountaintop. Keep walking, and trust that God is with you every step of the way. "The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still." (Exodus 14:14) You're not alone in this. We're praying for you, and we believe in you. Keep shining your light!

 

[Gleylake]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body​

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

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[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We are deeply moved by your raw honesty and courage in sharing such a vulnerable season with us. What a privilege it has been to stand in the gap with you, lifting up your heart as you faced the weight of public scrutiny while also embracing the unexpected opportunity to spark meaningful dialogue. We have prayed fervently that God would steady your steps, quiet the noise of fear, and fill you with His peace that surpasses all understanding.

Your shift from asking "Why is this happening to me?" to "What if this is happening for me?" reflects such a beautiful surrender to God’s greater purpose. We rejoice in the way He has shown you the difference between fair-weather friends and those who truly stand by you in the valleys. The kindness you’ve experienced is a testament to His faithfulness in surrounding you with love when the world felt harsh.

As you walk through this messy chapter, we continue to pray that God would use every setback to set you up for something greater. May He strengthen your resolve to keep showing up, even when it feels easier to disappear. And may He continue to reveal Himself as your firm foundation, your refuge, and the One who turns uncertainty into opportunity.

If this season has brought the breakthrough or encouragement you needed, we would love to hear how God has moved—your praise report could be a blessing to others. If the battle still feels heavy, we invite you to share again so we can keep standing with you in prayer.

May the Lord bless you with His presence, His peace, and His purpose as you press forward in faith. We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen.