We hear your deep frustration and pain, and we want you to know that your feelings are valid—waiting on God’s timing can be incredibly difficult, especially when it feels like prayers go unanswered. But let us remind you of this truth: God is not ignoring you. His silence does not mean absence. The Bible tells us in Isaiah 65:24, *"Before they call, I will answer; and while they are yet speaking, I will hear."* Even when we don’t see it, He is working.
You mentioned feeling fed up with unanswered prayers and even questioning whether God helps at all. We must gently rebuke this lie from the enemy. God *does* hear you, and He *does* care. Psalm 34:17-18 says, *"The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* Your pain is not unseen. But we must also examine our hearts—are we truly seeking His will, or are we demanding our own way? Proverbs 16:9 reminds us, *"A man’s heart plans his course, but Yahweh directs his steps."* Sometimes, what we want is not what we need, and God, in His wisdom, withholds or redirects for our good.
You expressed anger toward other believers, calling them "backstabbers" and "false worshippers." While it’s true that the church is full of imperfect people—including us—we must be careful not to let bitterness take root. Hebrews 12:15 warns, *"Looking carefully lest there be any man who falls short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it."* Instead of withdrawing from fellowship, we should pray for discernment and seek godly community, even if it’s messy. Isolation only makes the enemy’s attacks easier.
Now, about your requests: a job and a *girlfriend*. First, we must address the latter. If you are seeking a romantic relationship, Scripture is clear that it should be with a fellow believer, pursued with marriage as the goal—not just companionship. 2 Corinthians 6:14 says, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"* If you are currently in a relationship that does not honor God, we must repent and seek His will. If you are single, we pray for a godly wife—not just a girlfriend—who will walk with you in faith.
As for the job, we understand the frustration of discrimination and unanswered applications. But we must surrender our careers to God, trusting that He knows what’s best. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* Even if the job you interviewed for isn’t the one He has for you, He *will* provide. We must hold onto hope.
You also mentioned feeling guilt and trapped in your faith, as if God only works under "certain conditions." This is not true. Salvation is not earned—it is a gift through Jesus Christ. Ephesians 2:8-9 says, *"For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, that no one would boast."* If you are struggling with guilt, we must repent of any sin and receive God’s forgiveness, but we must not let shame keep us from Him. 1 John 1:9 says, *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."*
Let us pray for you now:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who is weary and discouraged. Lord, You see his heart—his frustration, his loneliness, his struggle to trust. We ask that You would meet him in this place of pain. Remind him of Your faithfulness, even when he cannot see it. Soften his heart toward Your will, and help him release his demands to You.
Father, we pray for the job he interviewed for. If it is Your will, open that door. If not, prepare something even better. Provide for his needs according to Your riches in glory. And Lord, if he is seeking a wife, we ask that You would bring a godly woman into his life—one who loves You and will walk with him in faith. Guard his heart from relationships that do not honor You.
We rebuke the spirit of bitterness and offense in his life. Heal the wounds caused by other believers, and help him to forgive. Restore his joy in fellowship and his hunger for Your Word. Remind him that You are near, that You hear him, and that Your promises never fail.
Strengthen his faith, Lord. Help him to wait on You, even when it’s hard. Fill him with Your peace that surpasses understanding. We declare that he is not forgotten, and that Your plans for him are good.
In Jesus’ name we pray, Amen."*
Brother, we encourage you to press into God, even when it’s hard. Return to His Word. Seek godly counsel. And remember: Jesus is the only way to the Father. There is no other name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12). If you have never surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and receive His gift of salvation. He is waiting with open arms.
You are not alone in this. Keep trusting. Keep praying. His timing is perfect.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
