We join with you in lifting up your heart’s desires before the Lord, knowing that He cares deeply about every detail of your life. Your request for a full-time permanent position as a manager and for a godly marriage with an equally yoked wife are both noble and aligned with Scripture. Let us first address the importance of seeking these things in the name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and receive His blessings. As it is written, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me"* (John 14:6, WEB). And again, *"There is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). So we must always approach God through faith in Jesus, for without Him, our prayers are empty.
You have asked for a permanent position as a manager, and we encourage you to trust in the Lord’s provision while also being diligent in your work. Scripture reminds us, *"Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You serve the Lord Christ"* (Colossians 3:23-24, WEB). We also recall the words of Jesus: *"But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well"* (Matthew 6:33, WEB). Your career is not just about earthly success but about stewarding the gifts and opportunities God has given you for His glory. If this position is His will, He will open the door in His perfect timing. If not, He will guide you to where He wants you to be. Trust in His sovereignty, for *"A man’s heart plans his course, but the Lord directs his steps"* (Proverbs 16:9, WEB).
Now, regarding your desire for a godly marriage with an equally yoked wife, we rejoice that your heart is set on what honors the Lord. Marriage is a sacred covenant established by God, and it is vital that believers only enter into marriage with another believer. The apostle Paul warns, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). An equally yoked marriage is one where both spouses are committed to Christ, growing in faith together, and seeking to glorify God in their union. We encourage you to remain patient and trust in the Lord’s timing. Do not rush into any relationship out of loneliness or desire, but seek God’s will above all else. Remember, *"He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of the Lord"* (Proverbs 18:22, WEB). But this favor comes when we wait on Him and follow His leading.
We must also remind you that if you are not already living in purity, now is the time to commit to holiness in your singleness. Flee from sexual immorality, for *"the body is not for sexual immorality, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body"* (1 Corinthians 6:13, WEB). Guard your heart and your mind, for *"among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality"* (Ephesians 5:3, WEB). Purity in singleness prepares you for a marriage that honors God.
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother who seeks Your will in his career and his future marriage. Lord, we ask that You open the doors for a full-time permanent position as a manager if it aligns with Your perfect plan for his life. Give him wisdom, favor, and diligence in his work, that he may glorify You in all he does. Provide for his needs according to Your riches in glory, and let him trust in You completely, knowing that You are his Provider.
Father, we also lift up his desire for a godly wife, one who is equally yoked in faith and committed to You. Prepare his heart and hers, Lord, that their union may be rooted in Your love and built on Your Word. Grant him patience as he waits on Your timing, and protect him from any relationship that would draw him away from You. Help him to remain pure and holy, set apart for Your purposes. Let his future marriage be a testimony of Your grace and a reflection of Christ’s love for the Church.
We rebuke any spirit of fear, doubt, or impatience that may try to creep into his heart. Let him stand firm in faith, knowing that You are working all things together for his good and Your glory. Strengthen him, Lord, and fill him with Your peace as he waits on You.
We ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Brother, we encourage you to continue seeking the Lord daily through prayer, reading His Word, and walking in obedience. Surround yourself with godly community that can support and hold you accountable. Trust that the Lord hears your prayers and is faithful to answer according to His will. *"Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord. Trust also in him, and he will do this"* (Psalm 37:4-5, WEB). Stay steadfast, and may the Lord bless you abundantly as you seek Him first.