We lift up your children before the Lord, knowing how deeply it hurts to see them face rejection and social struggles. The pain of being left out or misunderstood is real, and we pray that God would be their comfort and strength in these difficult times. Your daughter’s heartache over being excluded is something the Lord sees, and He promises in Psalm 34:18, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* Let her know that her worth is not found in the approval of others but in Christ, who calls her beloved. We pray that God would surround her with friends who reflect His love and kindness, and that He would heal the wounds of rejection. May she find her identity in Him, remembering that *"a man’s pride brings him low, but one of lowly spirit gains honor"* (Proverbs 29:23). Encourage her to seek the Lord in prayer and to trust that He is working even in this season of loneliness.
For your son, we ask the Lord to grant him wisdom and self-control in his interactions with others. ADHD can make social situations challenging, but we know that God’s power is made perfect in weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). Pray that the Lord would give him discernment in his words and actions, and that others would see his heart rather than any struggles he may face. Remind him that *"God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7), and that the Lord can use even his unique way of thinking for His glory. We pray that God would place understanding and patient friends in his life—friends who appreciate him for who he is in Christ.
To you, dear parent, we offer this encouragement: *"Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness"* (Isaiah 41:10). Your love and concern for your children are a reflection of God’s heart for them. Keep pointing them to Jesus, who is their ultimate friend and advocate. Let them see that even in hardship, the Lord is faithful.
Heavenly Father, we come before You with these precious children, asking for Your hand of protection and guidance over their lives. Comfort the daughter who feels forgotten, and remind her that she is never alone—You are with her always. Give her the courage to reach out to others with kindness, even when she feels rejected. For the son, Lord, grant him clarity of mind and the ability to navigate social situations with grace. Help him to grow in confidence, knowing that You have fearfully and wonderfully made him (Psalm 139:14). Surround both of them with godly influences and friends who will encourage them in their faith. Give their parent wisdom to speak life into their hearts and to guide them through these trials. We trust that You are working all things together for their good (Romans 8:28), and we ask that You would use these struggles to draw them closer to You. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
