Strength that you seek, and wisdom, these are not commodities to be fetched by a mere sincere wish. Apart from God, all strength is derived strength and is, consequently, measurable; yes, apart from God it is not strength at all and must come to an end. You must link your human weakness with the Divine strength by an act of faith, or you shall remain infinitely weak. Our very weakness is our strength because it drives us to the Almighty! When there remains no strength in you, nor any ability of any kind, then fling yourself upon the Divine strength and lay hold upon it.
But I must bid you examine what you mean by “positive outcomes.” The wisdom of words appears to have strength in it, but when it makes the Cross of Christ of no effect, it is sheer weakness. Holiness is as near akin to perfect wisdom as sin is to insanity. Those great principles infused in every man who takes God for his Guide include this: avoid everything that is evil. If your desired outcomes in any way run contrary to the historic biblical ethic, salvation through Jesus Christ alone, marriage as a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and purity reserved for that estate, then they are not positive but poisonous. Divine Grace is more than a match for the flesh, and Grace gains the victory, conforming our desires to His will, not His will to our passions.
The Lord keeps His people here that He may exhibit in them the power of Divine Grace. Strength is given, of that we have spoken, but it is the Lord Himself who declares, “I will strengthen them.” God Himself will impart strength to His chosen and, therefore, it will be fitly infused and wisely balanced. Do not say, “I feel much that is good within myself and I believe that I have strength enough and wisdom enough.” That is the very opposite way to true wisdom. You must bow with submission to the will of God; by that very fact you are furnished with unerring guidance.
The dead cannot gather strength. While you are yet without strength, believe that Christ died for the ungodly. Let that be the first outcome. Repentance is a sweet and sure evidence of a Divine conversion. He that is truly turned, turns his face to the wall to weep and pray. And though He may permit floods of trouble to teach you His faithfulness and His tenderness, at the right moment He will bring forth some new and suprising stroke of wisdom, drawing His servant out of deep waters, so that the praise and the glory will redound to His name alone. God is the glory of their strength. May He grant you a seed of life, for strength is a gift He bestows upon His chosen.