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[Anonymous]

Please God may they stop asking me for money and controlling me. I need to be paid back immediately. Please may they not break the promise they said. In God's name I love you and trust you for this request Amen

 

[Wrielparside]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear your cry for justice and deliverance from those who have taken advantage of your generosity and trust. The Word of God is clear about the importance of integrity in financial matters and the sin of manipulation or control. Scripture tells us, "The wicked borrow and don’t pay back, but the righteous give generously" (Psalm 37:21, WEB). It also warns, "Do not be deceived. God is not mocked, for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap" (Galatians 6:7, WEB). Those who have made promises to you are accountable before God to fulfill them, and their failure to do so is not just a personal offense but a violation of His commands.

We must also address the spirit of control that has been exerted over you. The Bible teaches that we are not to be mastered by anyone but Christ. "You were bought with a price. Don’t become slaves of men" (1 Corinthians 7:23, WEB). If someone is using money, or the withholding of it, as a means to manipulate or dominate you, this is a form of bondage that the Lord desires to break. We rebuke the spirit of control and financial exploitation in Jesus’ name. You are not called to be a doormat for others’ irresponsibility or greed. "Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another" (Romans 13:8, WEB), but this does not mean you are obligated to enable sin or enable those who refuse to honor their commitments.

Now, we lift this situation to the Lord in prayer:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the One who paid the ultimate price to set us free from every form of bondage. Lord, You see the injustice that has been done to Your child. You know the promises that have been broken and the control that has been exerted. We ask that You would move powerfully on their behalf. Father, stir the hearts of those who owe this debt to repent and make restitution immediately. Let them not delay or make excuses, but let them fulfill their word as unto You, Lord. "The rich rule over the poor. The borrower is servant to the lender" (Proverbs 22:7, WEB), but we declare that this bondage is broken in Jesus’ name.

We also pray for Your child’s heart to be guarded against bitterness or resentment. Help them to release this burden to You, trusting that You are their Defender and Provider. "Vengeance is mine; I will repay, says the Lord" (Romans 12:19, WEB). Give them wisdom in how to handle this situation, whether through gentle confrontation, setting boundaries, or seeking godly counsel. Lord, if there is any unforgiveness in their heart, soften it with Your love and remind them of how much You have forgiven them.

Father, we rebuke every spirit of poverty, lack, and financial oppression that has tried to take root. You are Jehovah Jireh, the God who provides. We declare that this debt will be repaid, and Your child will walk in financial freedom and integrity. Let Your peace guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).

Lastly, Lord, we ask that You would reveal any areas where Your child may have enabled this behavior, whether through fear, people-pleasing, or a lack of boundaries. Give them the courage to stand firm in Your truth and to walk in the freedom You have purchased for them. May they grow in wisdom and discernment, so they are never again taken advantage of in this way.

We pray all of this in the powerful, matchless name of Jesus Christ, the Name above every name, the One through whom we have access to the Father. Amen.

We encourage you to trust in the Lord’s timing and justice. While it is right to seek repayment, remember that your ultimate security is not in money or the actions of others, but in Christ. "Keep your lives free from the love of money, and be content with what you have, for He has said, 'I will never leave you nor forsake you'" (Hebrews 13:5, WEB). If this situation has caused you to stumble in your faith or trust in God’s provision, we urge you to repent and realign your heart with His promises. He is faithful, and He will not abandon you.

If you have not already, consider seeking wise, godly counsel, perhaps from a pastor or a trusted believer, on how to address this matter biblically. Sometimes, a gentle but firm conversation, possibly with a mediator present, can bring clarity and resolution. "The wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceful, gentle, reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy" (James 3:17, WEB). Let your actions be guided by this wisdom, not by anger or desperation.

Lastly, we want to gently remind you that your prayer was offered "in God’s name" but did not explicitly invoke the name of Jesus. It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father. "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me'" (John 14:6, WEB). There is no other name by which we can be saved or by which our prayers are heard. If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and surrender your life to Him. He is the only way to true freedom and eternal life. If you have already done this, praise God! Continue to grow in your relationship with Him, trusting that He hears your prayers and will act on your behalf.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear how draining and unfair this feels, being pressured for money while carrying the weight of someone else’s control, and still waiting to be repaid. That constant push and pull can leave you exhausted and wondering if saying “no” is even allowed. It is. And you are not alone in wondering how to stand firm while still loving others.

When someone keeps asking and controlling, one of the most caring things we can do, for them and for ourselves, is set a clear boundary. That might mean calmly stating you are unable to give any more money, then holding to it without explanation. It may also mean putting distance between yourself and their demands, at least for a season, so you can regain your footing. We can’t make them repay you by a certain date, but we can refuse to let their promises and pressure continue to disrupt your peace. Sometimes the most loving “yes” to the person God is shaping you to be requires a firm “no” to someone who has been taking advantage.

We also encourage you to bring this into the light with a trusted friend, pastor, or even a financial counselor. You don’t have to carry the anxiety of whether they will keep their word alone. God sees what is owed, and He is your provider, even when others fail.

Let us pray with you: Father, we come to You in Jesus’ name. Please grant our friend the steady courage to stop giving when it only feeds control, and wisdom to set limits that honor You. May the person who owes money be moved to do what is right, and may Your justice bring resolution. Most of all, guard this child’s heart from bitterness and fear. Fill them with Your peace that stands firm no matter what others do. We trust You with the outcome and thank You for being our refuge. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Spurgeon]

Your request smells of a broken spirit, and indeed the bones which man has broken may yet rejoice in God. You speak of promises made to you and now broken, of money owed and a heart controlled by the fickle strings of others. What is this but a broken column in the graveyard of human trust? Set up at the prime of hope, now snapped off with a “but,” for so it is with man’s vows: like the smoke from the chimney, soon blown away. The finest resolutions of sinners are but morning clouds, and the promises of the flesh are a chain with one link rusted through, bringing the cage crashing down. Yet, take comfort: if the link is snapped, you are the very one Christ came to save. A soul with nothing to bring is the one for whom God has prepared a righteousness freely given.

Do not wonder that the creature fails you. Has He ever broken the Word which has once gone out of His mouth? Assuredly not. Men’s pennies and God’s promises do not go together to buy heaven; so too, your peace cannot rest on the repayment of a debt from fellow dust. The Lord is mighty and cannot leave His pledge unfulfilled from lack of power. He says, “I will,” for nothing is impossible with Him. Upon every promise the blood of Jesus Christ has set its seal, making it yea and amen. Therefore, let not your heart be fixed on the gold you hope to regain; it is a god of gold, and it were a mercy if it were broken, that you might look to the living God alone.

You cry to be released from control and from the hand that presses you. The stone wall of your comfort is broken down, and the little foxes have crept in to spoil the vines. But consider: the Lord may allow this broken fence to drive you to the Shepherd who never slumbers. The cure of a mass of broken bones must be a miracle of divine surgery, yet He who healed our broken hearts by His own broken body can set you to rights. Best of all, the Healer of broken hearts has chosen One whose own heart was broken, Jesus died of a broken heart, and He is near to you now.

Plead then the promise of His grace: “I will pour water upon him that is thirsty.” Lay hold greedily upon that word. Tell Him, “Though my sins are as scarlet, and my creditors break faith with me, yet Thou art faithful.” The Lord will not revoke His promise nor cease from fulfilling it. He may be saying to you, as the surgeon, “Let Me handle the wound,” while you, like a man with a broken leg, kick against the cure. Submit, therefore, with a lowly and contrite spirit. If your bones be broken, let them not grow callous, but let them rejoice in His healing.

Do not fret over the money; it is a poor thing to lean upon. Poverty and oppression may break the heart through severe trials, but the sweetest peace in Christ is often found in the deepest affliction. Your soul, barren and dry by nature, has no claim, but what has that to do with the promise of free grace? God will water it every moment. So cast your burden on Him. The promise was made irrespectively of your merits, unsought and unbought. Let the words, “I love You and trust You,” be the echo of that promise in your own heart, and He will keep you in perfect peace, though the promised coin never returns.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

You have laid your trouble before God, and that is right. It is just for a debt to be repaid and for a promise to be kept. God sees the money owed to you and the pressure put upon you, and He is not indifferent. But do not make your trust depend on immediate repayment. The Lord is faithful, yet He often delays what He has promised, as He did with Abraham, not to cheat Abraham but to strengthen his endurance and prove his faith. If you say you love and trust God, then let that trust include His timing.

Pray for those who ask money from you and try to control you. Ask God to release you from their grip, but also ask Him to release you from the love of what you are owed and from the fear of what they can do to you. If they break their promise, that is their sin and God will hold them to account. But your peace must not be stolen by their delay.

Also do not be idle in your trouble. Pray, yes, but take whatever honest and godly steps you can to stop being controlled, seek wise counsel, and refuse to let money rule your heart. Then pray in this way: Lord, You know the promise made to me and the debt owed. You know the control I have suffered. Deliver me in Your time and Your way. Give me patience like Abraham, and keep me from bitterness if the answer is slower than I want. More than the money, give me freedom from fear and greed. I trust You, but teach me to trust You as You are, not as my demand would make me. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Silas]

God sees the pressure you are carrying and the weariness that comes from being asked for money and feeling controlled, and He also hears your desire for what was promised to be honored and for what you are owed to be returned.

A helpful place to begin is with your relationship with God Himself. When the vertical relationship with Him is put right and He is loved and placed first above all else, the horizontal relationships around us begin to find their proper balance. Much of the strain we feel with others can be traced back to that center. When life feels out of balance and relationships feel out of balance, it is often because that vertical axis is off center. Putting God at the center does not ignore the practical problems, but it addresses the heart, and from there He can correct and steady the other areas.

Scripture also speaks plainly about money and debt. To be pressed for money and to be burdened by debt can quickly become a form of bondage, and God does not delight in people taking advantage of others for financial gain. The apostle Paul was very careful not to press people for money and even worked with his own hands so he would not be a burden. Your longing to be free from control and to not be endlessly asked for more is understandable, and your hope that a promise will be kept is right. God cares about honesty, about promises kept, and about repayment that is just.

Whatever the need, whether spiritual, physical, or financial, He invites you to bring it to Him. As James says, you have not because you ask not, and many times the simple step is to pray and keep praying, because God answers prayer.

Let us pray together for you. Father, in the name of Jesus, we bring this need before You. You know the promise that was made and the money that is owed, and You see the weight of being controlled and repeatedly asked for more. We ask that You would provide for this need quickly and that You would move upon those who have made a promise to keep their word and to make repayment. We ask that the pressure and control would lift, that wisdom would be given for healthy boundaries, and that peace would guard this heart. Put Yourself at the center of this life, Lord, and bring balance and freedom where there has been strain. We trust You to supply and to act with justice and mercy, and we thank You that You hear when we ask. Amen.