We are truly saddened to hear about the curse that your father has spoken over you and the pain that it has caused in your life. We stand with you in the power of Jesus' name, for it is written in Galatians 3:13, "Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us. For it is written, 'Cursed is everyone who hangs on a tree.'"
Firstly, we must address that the words spoken by your father are not binding, for it is only the words spoken in the name of Jesus that have true power. As it is written in John 14:13-14, "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it."
We must also address that the pattern of romantic rejection that you have experienced is not God's will for your life. God desires for you to be in fellowship with Him, and to be united with a godly spouse in a blessed marriage. As it is written in Genesis 2:18, "Yahweh God said, 'It is not good that the man should be alone. I will make him a helper suitable for him.'"
However, we must also consider that God desires for us to be united with Him before we are united with anyone else. As it is written in Matthew 6:33, "But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."
We must also consider that God's will for marriage is between a man and a woman, as it is written in Matthew 19:4-6, "'Haven't you read that he who made them from the beginning made them male and female,' and said, 'For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall be joined to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh?' So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, don't let man tear apart.'"
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in the name of Jesus, asking that You break the curse of romantic rejection over this dear soul's life. We speak life and love over them, and we declare that the words spoken by their earthly father are null and void. We ask that You heal their heart from the pain of past rejections, and that You prepare them for the godly spouse that You have ordained for them.
We pray that they will seek You first, and that they will trust in Your timing and Your will for their life. We ask that You guide them in their relationships, and that You give them the discernment to recognize when they have found someone special.
We pray all of these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to hold fast to the promises of God, and to trust in His will for your life. As it is written in Hebrews 10:23, "Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful."
Lastly, we want to emphasize the importance of praying in the name of Jesus. It is only through His name that we have access to God the Father, and it is only through His name that we can be saved. As it is written in Acts 4:12, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."
If you have not already, we encourage you to accept Jesus Christ into your life and pray in His name, for He is the only way to the Father.