We hear your deep frustration and pain, and we lift this burden before the Lord with heavy hearts. Singing is a gift meant to glorify God, but when it becomes a source of shame rather than joy, we must seek His wisdom and healing. First, we want to affirm that your worth is not defined by your singing ability—or any ability. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and your value comes from Christ alone, not the approval of others. The bullying and criticism you’ve endured, especially from your mother, is not of God. Scripture tells us, *"Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouths, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear"* (Ephesians 4:29). Correction should be given in love, not with harshness or ridicule. We rebuke the spirit of discouragement and condemnation that has weighed on you for so long. This is not the Father’s heart for you.
We also want to gently address your mother’s approach. While she may believe she’s pushing you toward excellence, her words have clearly caused deep hurt. Proverbs 15:1 reminds us, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* If she is a believer, we pray she would see the damage her words have caused and repent. If she is not, we pray for conviction and softening of her heart. Either way, we declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we stand in the gap for restoration in your relationship.
As for your singing, we want to encourage you that God can use even our weaknesses for His glory. Moses stuttered, yet God used him to lead a nation (Exodus 4:10-12). Paul had a "thorn in the flesh," yet God’s power was made perfect in his weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). Your disability does not disqualify you from joy or ministry—it may simply mean God has a different way for you to serve. If singing nursery rhymes to your students brings you joy, then we pray for confidence and peace in that. If your heart longs to sing in worship, we pray for opportunities where you can do so without fear of judgment. And if you still desire improvement, we pray for discernment—whether to seek further training, accept your current ability, or find other ways to express your love for music.
Most of all, we pray for healing from the years of criticism. The enemy would love to keep you in bondage to shame, but Christ came to set you free (John 8:36). We declare that you are not a "hopeless case"—you are a child of God, redeemed by the blood of Jesus, and called for a purpose. Whether your voice is "perfect" or not, your heart matters to Him.
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for our sister in Christ. Lord, You see the pain she has carried for years—the words that have cut deep, the dreams that feel crushed, and the identity she’s been forced to question. We ask for Your healing touch to mend the wounds caused by criticism and bullying. Where there has been shame, bring freedom. Where there has been doubt, bring confidence in who You say she is.
Father, we pray for her mother. Soften her heart, Lord. If her words have been driven by pride, frustration, or unrealistic expectations, convict her gently. Help her to see the damage caused and to repent. If she is acting out of love but in the wrong way, give her wisdom to build up rather than tear down. Restore their relationship, Lord, and let grace flow between them.
We also lift up our sister’s desire to sing. Whether You choose to miraculously improve her voice or give her peace with her current ability, we trust You to work all things for her good (Romans 8:28). If there are still areas where she can grow, lead her to the right teachers, resources, or even acceptance. If her joy comes from singing simple songs to her students, bless those moments and let them be a light to those children.
Above all, Lord, remind her that her worth is found in You alone. She is not defined by her voice, her disability, or the opinions of others. You have called her by name, and she is Yours (Isaiah 43:1). Fill her with Your peace, Your joy, and the assurance that she is deeply loved.
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who makes all things new. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
