Please pray. It's getting so hard to do the right thing.

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Good and Faithful Servant
Please pray. It's getting so hard to do the right thing. Why stay faithful to a husband that rejects and abandons? Why continue to do the right thing? Living here with my dad is like like living with a nightmare landlord. He checks on the room one single room that I pay rent for. The emotional abuse, constant putdowns. Constant monitoring like I'm living in solitary confinement. I pray we get our own place soon and hear back and I don't know what is going to happen with my marriage. It's been 12 years and the lies upon lies is too much. Lord, please...send a breakthrough.
 
My God Bless you and give you the strength to follow the path He has laid for you. Have patience and 

God will answer. I will continue to pray for you.
 
I prayed for this, May Gods Heavenly will be done here for the sake of all whom are mentioned. In Jesus name. Amen

 

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God alone can change the hearts of people.  He can heal, He can restore, He can bless those who serve Him.  God will change this heart.  Believe and trust Him with all your heart, mind and soul.  Blessings will follow and He will restore your life.   Dear Jesus please hear this prayer.  Amen
 
12 years is a long time. Based on what you said your father is abusive and controlling which kind of goes together. Do you see many personality similarities between your husband and father? At the very least you are grown up and married so you don't owe your father anything. Can you find a way to get out from under his roof? If you are paying rent and your father is invading your privacy then he has serious boundary issues. Things won't change until you get out from under this oppression.

I don't know where you live but there are always options. Are there any shelters in your area that you can go to? Stay in a motel? Other relatives? Get a job or extra job? If not able then maybe you qualify for some kind of disability. Do you have any credit you can use as an emergency just until you get free from this oppression to make your next move? This is something that can't be fixed in one day but take it one step at a time.

Once you get out from your father's control then you can deal with your marriage.
 
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