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[Asteondion]

My wife refuses to submit to me, and it has gotten her into trouble repeatedly. Our relationship is growing sour because no matter what effort I put in, it isn’t enough. She is always accusing me of cheating, cursing at me, and treating me like I am her child. Somehow, when she is in distress, she needs my help though. The only time she ever submits is when she’s asking for help with the way someone else is treating her, or she’s afraid of something or she needs help with a technical issue. I am tired of being treated like a tool or something that can be stepped on. She is constantly making fun of the way I look, and making fun of my illness which prevents me from growing any hair on my head or face. Then she wants me to comfort her throughout the day as she is treating me this way, this feels like a nightmare.

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep pain and frustration in your words, and we stand with you before the Lord, lifting this heavy burden to Him. Marriage is a sacred covenant designed by God to reflect Christ’s love for the church—a union of mutual respect, love, and submission as outlined in Scripture. Ephesians 5:22-25 tells us, *"Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church... Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself up for it."* Yet, what you describe is far from this godly design, and it grieves our hearts to see a marriage so strained by disrespect, accusation, and emotional harm.

We must address the sin in this situation with truth and love. Your wife’s refusal to submit to your God-given role as the head of the household, her verbal abuse, and her mockery of your appearance and illness are not only deeply hurtful but are also in direct violation of Scripture. Proverbs 12:18 says, *"There is one who speaks rashly like the piercing of a sword, but the tongue of the wise heals."* Her words are cutting you like a sword, and this is not the way a wife should treat her husband. Additionally, her accusations of infidelity without cause are a form of slander, which the Lord detests (Proverbs 6:16-19). We rebuke this behavior in the name of Jesus and call her to repentance, for her own sake and for the sake of your marriage.

You are not called to endure this treatment passively. While Scripture calls you to love your wife as Christ loved the church, it does not require you to submit to abuse or to enable sin. You have every right to set boundaries and to insist on being treated with the dignity and respect that God intends for you as a husband and as a man made in His image. Colossians 3:19 says, *"Husbands, love your wives, and don’t be bitter against them."* It is difficult not to grow bitter when you are constantly belittled and mistreated, but we pray that the Lord will give you the strength to respond in a way that honors Him, even as you stand firm against sin.

We also want to gently address the dynamic you describe, where your wife only submits or seeks your help when she is in distress. This is not true submission; it is manipulation, and it is not pleasing to the Lord. True submission is a heart posture of respect and honor, not something that is given only when it is convenient or when she needs something from you. James 3:16 warns, *"For where jealousy and selfish ambition are, there is confusion and every evil deed."* Her behavior is rooted in selfishness, and it is causing confusion and harm in your marriage. We rebuke this spirit of manipulation and pray that the Lord will break its hold on her heart.

Your weariness is understandable, and we want to remind you that you are not alone. The Lord sees your pain, and He is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). You are not a tool to be used or a doormat to be stepped on; you are a beloved child of God, created with purpose and dignity. We pray that the Lord will restore your sense of worth and give you the courage to stand firm in your identity in Christ.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this brother and his marriage to You. Lord, You see the pain and frustration he is enduring, and You know the brokenness in this union. We ask that You would intervene in this marriage, softening his wife’s heart and convicting her of the sin in her words and actions. Father, we rebuke the spirit of disrespect, manipulation, and verbal abuse that has taken root in this home, and we ask that You would break its power in the name of Jesus. Bring repentance and healing, Lord, for the sake of Your glory and for the sake of this family.

We pray for our brother, that You would strengthen him in his spirit and remind him of his worth in Your eyes. Give him the wisdom to set godly boundaries and the courage to stand firm against sin, even as he continues to love his wife as Christ loves the church. Lord, we ask that You would protect his heart from bitterness and fill him with Your peace and joy, even in the midst of this trial. Help him to see himself as You see him—a man of dignity, created in Your image, and called to lead his household with love and wisdom.

Father, we also pray for restoration in this marriage. If it is Your will, bring healing to their relationship and teach them both to love and respect one another as You have called them to do. If repentance does not come, give our brother the strength to make difficult decisions that honor You and protect his own well-being. We trust in Your sovereignty, Lord, and we ask that You would work all things together for good, according to Your purpose.

We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above all names, the One who redeems and restores. Amen.

In the meantime, we encourage you to seek godly counsel, whether through a pastor, a trusted Christian mentor, or a biblical counselor who can help you navigate this difficult season. You do not have to walk this path alone, and the Lord often uses the wisdom and support of others to bring clarity and healing. Stand firm in your faith, brother, and trust that the Lord is at work, even when you cannot see it. Your marriage is worth fighting for, but not at the expense of your own well-being or your walk with Christ. May the Lord guide your steps and give you the strength to persevere.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, brother. It's tough seeing your wife refuse to submit to you, and the constant accusations and disrespect must feel like a heavy burden. It's not right, and it's not what God intended for marriage. We're lifting you up in prayer, asking the Lord to intervene and bring change to your situation.

We want to encourage you, though. You're not alone, and God sees your pain. He's right there with you, and He's not pleased with the way you're being treated either. Remember, you're a beloved child of God, created with purpose and dignity. You deserve to be treated with respect and love, just as your wife does.

We're praying for your wife too, that her heart would soften and she would see the hurt she's causing. We're asking God to convict her of her sin and bring repentance. But we're also praying for you, brother. We're asking God to strengthen you, to give you wisdom to set boundaries, and courage to stand firm against sin. We're praying for His peace and joy to fill you, even in the midst of this trial.

Keep trusting in the Lord, brother. Your marriage is worth fighting for, but not at the expense of your own well-being or your walk with Christ. Seek godly counsel, whether it's from a pastor, a trusted Christian mentor, or a biblical counselor. You don't have to walk this path alone.

In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

 

[Asteondion]

Thank you all for praying, I will seek the Lord and seek Godly counsel in this situation. I have had a tough time finding a Godly mentor or someone I can trust, but I am thankful for this ministry and I will pray I have a friend to talk to. God bless you in Jesus holy name.

 

[EnricoLange]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Wernad]

Heavenly Father, we bring before You Your servant whose heart is deeply wounded within his own marriage. He feels disrespected, mocked, and used—treated not as a cherished husband but as a tool to be called upon only in times of distress. You see the pain caused by words that cut deeply, especially the mocking of his appearance and the illness he did not choose. Lord, this is not the marriage You designed.

We pray for Your healing touch upon this relationship. Pour Your love into both of their hearts through the Holy Spirit (Romans 5:5). Soften the heart of his wife. Help her to see him not through eyes of criticism, but as her husband, deserving of honor and respect. Convict her of the pain her words and accusations cause.

We pray for Your wisdom for him. Grant him clarity and strength as it says in James 1:5: *"If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you."* Guide his words and actions. Show him how to set loving boundaries and when to seek counsel.

Father, we also lift up his wife. Calm the fears and insecurities that seem to drive her accusations. Bring healing to whatever wounds in her own life cause her to lash out. Turn their sour relationship into something sweet, restoring the mutual submission and love that reflects Christ and the church (Ephesians 5:21).

Finally, Lord, we ask You to be his comfort and his shield. Remind him that he is fearfully and wonderfully made in Your image (Psalm 139:14). Let him find his worth and identity in You, not in her ever-changing words. Renew his strength and give him hope that You are working, even when he cannot see it. We ask this in the powerful and healing name of Jesus. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”

 

[Brother James]

My wife refuses to submit to me, and it has gotten her into trouble repeatedly. Our relationship is growing sour because no matter what effort I put in, it isn’t enough. She is always accusing me of cheating, cursing at me, and treating me like I am her child. Somehow, when she is in distress, she needs my help though. The only time she ever submits is when she’s asking for help with the way someone else is treating her, or she’s afraid of something or she needs help with a technical issue. I am tired of being treated like a tool or something that can be stepped on. She is constantly making fun of the way I look, and making fun of my illness which prevents me from growing any hair on my head or face. Then she wants me to comfort her throughout the day as she is treating me this way, this feels like a nightmare.

Praying for you and your request in Jesus. Did you know there are promises for our spouses found in the book of Hosea that we can claim in Jesus?

Have we ever really meditated on Matthew 6 where Jesus instructs us to take no thought for our lives? I have looked at this in terms of the rest of the Bible where I have learned to claim His Promises in Jesus and take on His thoughts for my life. Thank You Lord Jesus for Blessing me to learn to stop thinking about my life, learn to take on Your thoughts for my life and so much more for Your Glory and my good in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Jesus! Glory to You Lord Jesus!!!

Do you Believe Jesus died for our sins, is Risen from the dead, is Preparing a place for us and is about to call us to join Him?

Are you watching for Jesus in the Clouds of Glory? Jesus is about to call us to join Him!

We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

You can copy and paste this to pray every day and share...

There is nothing that happens for us that is bad except our thoughts about what is happening to us. The Bible says All things work together for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!

Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.

Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.

I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life from Matthew 6. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. My wife returned. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.

Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus! All things work together for my good in Jesus!

Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus! Glory to You Lord Jesus!!!

Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.

Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.

Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.

Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.

Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.

Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.

 

[Brother James]

Thank you all for praying, I will seek the Lord and seek Godly counsel in this situation. I have had a tough time finding a Godly mentor or someone I can trust, but I am thankful for this ministry and I will pray I have a friend to talk to. God bless you in Jesus holy name.

Have you ever wondered how faithful we are to submit ourselves unto Jesus as our spouse?

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.