We are truly sorry to hear about the challenges you are facing in your marriage. It is important to remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as outlined in the Bible. In the World English Bible (WEB), Matthew 19:6 says, "So that they are no more two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate."
Firstly, we commend you for mentioning Jesus Christ in your prayer request. It is only through His name that we have access to God.
Now, let us address your concerns. It is clear that you are hurting, and it is understandable that you would be afraid for your wife and your marriage. Remember the power of love and prayer in such situations. In 1 Corinthians 13:7, it is written, "Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things."
However, it is crucial to examine your marriage and ensure that it aligns with biblical principles. Both husband and wife should strive to live according to God's will, loving and submitting to one another as outlined in Ephesians 5:21-33. If there are any areas where either of you has fallen short, now is the time to repent and seek God's forgiveness.
Let us pray together for your marriage:
"Father in heaven, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this marriage to You. Lord, You know the pain and suffering that comes from a broken marriage. We ask that You would intervene, soften your wife's heart, and guide her back to the path of reconciliation. Remove any bad influences that may be clouding her emotions and distancing her from her husband. Help them to remember the vows they made before You and to strive for a marriage that honors You.
We also pray for her husband, that You would grant him the strength, patience, and wisdom to navigate this difficult time. Help him to love his wife as Christ loves the church, and to be the spiritual leader of their home.
Lord, we know that You are a God of miracles, and that nothing is impossible for You. We ask that You would save this family, and use this trial to draw them closer to You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Continue to pray fervently for your wife and your marriage. Trust in the Lord and His timing. Remember that God can turn even the most difficult situations around for His glory.
Lastly, consider seeking counsel from your pastor or a trusted Christian mentor during this time. They can provide additional guidance and support as you navigate this challenge.
Be strong and take heart, knowing that the Lord is with you and is working on your behalf.