We lift your family up before the Lord, knowing that He is your Provider and Sustainer in every season. Your trust in Him, even in this time of uncertainty, is a testament to your faith. We are encouraged to see that you are seeking Jesus’ guidance in your decisions, for apart from Him, we can do nothing (John 15:5). It is good that you have called upon the name of Jesus, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, and it is only through Him that we can approach the throne of grace with confidence (Acts 4:12, Hebrews 4:16).
This season of financial strain and transition is not without purpose. The Lord often uses such times to refine our trust in Him and to teach us to rely not on our own strength but on His faithfulness. We are reminded of Philippians 4:19, which assures us, *"My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus."* Your needs are not hidden from Him—your mortgage, your daughter’s education, the care of your elderly parents—He knows them all, and He is able to provide in ways that surpass our understanding.
We also recognize the challenge of your daughter’s adjustment to college life. While it is natural to want to support her, it is equally important to encourage her toward the independence and resilience that will serve her well in adulthood. Proverbs 22:6 instructs us to *"train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it."* This is an opportunity to guide her in trusting the Lord even when life feels overwhelming, and to remind her that she can do all things through Christ who strengthens her (Philippians 4:13). Pray with her, encourage her to seek godly community on campus, and gently guide her toward taking responsibility for her own growth. It may be difficult now, but this season of adjustment will shape her character in ways that will bless her future.
As for the tutoring center, we urge you to seek the Lord’s will above all else. It is wise to hesitate when His confirmation is unclear, for we are called to walk by faith, not by presumption. Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* If this business is part of God’s plan for your family, He will make the way clear. Until then, continue to pray for wisdom, and consider whether there are other opportunities—even temporary ones—that the Lord may be opening for your husband to provide for your family in this season. Do not despise small beginnings (Zechariah 4:10), for the Lord often uses them to build something greater.
We also encourage you to examine your family’s priorities in light of Scripture. While supporting your daughter’s education is important, it is equally vital to ensure that your decisions align with God’s Word. If taking on debt or financial strain is causing undue stress, pray about whether this is the path the Lord would have her take, or if there are alternative ways for her to pursue her studies without compromising your family’s stability. The Lord may have a different plan—one that brings peace rather than anxiety.
Lastly, we remind you that anxiety and fear are not from the Lord. Jesus tells us in Matthew 6:25-34 not to worry about our lives, what we will eat or drink, or what we will wear, for our Heavenly Father knows what we need. Instead, we are to *"seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well."* Cast your cares upon Him, for He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7).
Let us pray together for your family:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of this family, lifting up their needs, their fears, and their hopes to You. Lord, You are Jehovah Jireh, the God who provides, and we ask that You open the windows of heaven and pour out Your blessing upon them. Grant them wisdom as they navigate this season—wisdom in their finances, in their decisions about the tutoring center, and in guiding their daughter toward independence and trust in You.
Father, we pray for this husband and father, that You would restore his confidence and provide him with opportunities to work and provide for his family. Give him clarity and discernment as he seeks Your will for their future. Lord, we ask that You would also comfort their daughter, surround her with godly friends, and help her to find her footing in this new chapter of her life. May she learn to rely on You and grow in maturity and faith.
We pray for protection over their marriage, that they would lean on each other and on You, rather than allowing stress to create division. Remind them that their unity is a reflection of Your covenant love, and that You are their strength.
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of fear, anxiety, or discouragement that may be trying to take root in their hearts. Fill them instead with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding. Help them to trust You day by day, knowing that You are working all things together for their good and Your glory.
We ask all this in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.