mattosan
Account Closed
my wife is going thru alot right now she is confused..for months she has said she is done and is filing for divorce... i told her i was moving on with trying to heal from this situation and that i have been attending "Divorce Care" at our church and i said i was not giving up on her i was just trying to heal.. her words to me as she started to cry was she wasnt sure(speaking of the divorce) how that was going to play out and that she is just glad that we are getting along right now and that the kids are getting to enjoy just hanging out with mom and dad...that is because god has been setting up time for us to spend together..3-4 times a week we go out to dinner my wife and i and my 2 youngest daughters, and my wife has told me that she is enjoying it and loves seeing how happy the kids are when we all go out... she has stopped telling me that she is "going to file" in fact she started to file and hasnt finished filling out the papers..?? please pray that god will continue to soften her heart and give me the strength and courage to hold on and gaurd my heart at the same(how do you do that?) anyway i am scared to hope too much but feel god has been doing alot of work on my wifes heart..please pray for my wife to be able to love me again...i know she does but i mean actually be able to show it and say it and mean it...i want to reconcile with my wife and kids..