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Please pray for my marriage. My wife and I separated in November. It was just suppose to be a temporary arrangement, not to last past a year. I moved out to help my daughters financially; we all were having problems in our relationships with one another. My wife and I had made a commitment to help them, and as fate would have in circumstances kept changing.
During this time of separation my wife and I would spend most every weekend together. We would go to movies; comedy clubs hang out and watch movies. I was foolish enough to think it was kind of like dating again. I always believed that we would be back together.
My wife had a complete and sudden attitude change towards me about the end of March.
I would later find out that she is having problems she says with her sexuality and is now involved in a relationship with another woman.
I know that my wife loves me and I love her. I know that she grew up in the Catholic Church and knows the difference between right and wrong. I always thought that we would grow old together and would be together in heaven as well.
I asked her to please make a choice a 16-year marriage or this 30-day relationship and I am dumbfounded that she is struggling with this decision. After I told her to please make a decision and put this other relationship off so we could work on our marriage, she informed me that she had made plans to go away this weekend. I was sooo hurt, but still asked to please understand that it was not fair to me to just sit and wait around for her while she is putting our relationship on hold to build another one. I love my wife. I am just a one-person kind of guy and I am really bonded to my wife after 16 years.
This morning she called me up to ask if it would still be ok if she went away this weekend. That she was had asked this woman to move in with her, but said she put that off as a compromise for our relationship. She forgot that she had previously told me that she had asked this person to be a roommate prior to my finding out about their affair and she had told me that this person had declined because they could not move presently.
Every day I say a pray to God. Every day I say a prayer to St. Jude. I pray you please join me in saying a prayer for my wife and I.
I can’t share this with anyone else that is also making me crazy. I don’t know how long I can contain my sorrow and grieve over all that has happened. I know I can post here anonymously and ask for your support.
Thank you and God Bless!
During this time of separation my wife and I would spend most every weekend together. We would go to movies; comedy clubs hang out and watch movies. I was foolish enough to think it was kind of like dating again. I always believed that we would be back together.
My wife had a complete and sudden attitude change towards me about the end of March.
I would later find out that she is having problems she says with her sexuality and is now involved in a relationship with another woman.
I know that my wife loves me and I love her. I know that she grew up in the Catholic Church and knows the difference between right and wrong. I always thought that we would grow old together and would be together in heaven as well.
I asked her to please make a choice a 16-year marriage or this 30-day relationship and I am dumbfounded that she is struggling with this decision. After I told her to please make a decision and put this other relationship off so we could work on our marriage, she informed me that she had made plans to go away this weekend. I was sooo hurt, but still asked to please understand that it was not fair to me to just sit and wait around for her while she is putting our relationship on hold to build another one. I love my wife. I am just a one-person kind of guy and I am really bonded to my wife after 16 years.
This morning she called me up to ask if it would still be ok if she went away this weekend. That she was had asked this woman to move in with her, but said she put that off as a compromise for our relationship. She forgot that she had previously told me that she had asked this person to be a roommate prior to my finding out about their affair and she had told me that this person had declined because they could not move presently.
Every day I say a pray to God. Every day I say a prayer to St. Jude. I pray you please join me in saying a prayer for my wife and I.
I can’t share this with anyone else that is also making me crazy. I don’t know how long I can contain my sorrow and grieve over all that has happened. I know I can post here anonymously and ask for your support.
Thank you and God Bless!
