Please pray for my joy. I am flat, sad , unhappy.my

[stephen79]

Please pray for my joy. I am flat, sad , unhappy.my wife arlene has messed up our relationship by sleeping with another man. I was let down a lot before i received jesus in my life. Yet i know its impossible i will ever met anyone like her again, i am ugley she is like a model. Thats it i feel like i will be unhappy my whole life.now with second best. I cant get back to being to the joy of jesus beacuse of this pain. Allthough i still love god with all my.heart i am like half the man i used to be chopped in half, he might as well take me up now to heaven i cant get over the pain

I dont expect god to be a genie, but at my age i waited so.long for her i know now there is.no.hope 

She is.defiled, and i am old now, the only thing i want is god to turn the clock back and stop her cheating, 

I can not be happy alone, and if she comes back i can not be happy beacuse she cheated,  

When i came to jesus i had complete faith everything would be ok, i was single for three years and happy, now i have lost that faith and see my time here as one of sufferring, will you pray that god gives me a better wife soon so i can forget her, i just cant forget her, 

I feel let down, i know god could have stopped it, now i must suffer beacuse?

 

[marielise]

prayers for you Stephen...

 

[Shermarie]

Stephen, I can feel your pain. I am going something similar. After some research after I told my guy goodbye because I couldn't take it anymore, I started to research and found this info about affair fogs.  http://www.emotionalaffair.org/understanding-the-affair-fog/. My guy did a 180 turn around and changed literally overnight. Even after I cried, lost weight, everything- I couldn't understand why he was doing what he was. It was out of character for him and just something that I couldn't wrap my head around. But I found the affair fog, and I started researching it and come to conclusion that he was in one. Through prayers- the fog is lifting and he is starting to go back to his old self and stopped seeing the other woman for the last 3 weeks.

I hope this might shed some light on what might be happening to your wife. Although its not an excuse- but it might explain her irrational thoughts and behaviors.

Your more than welcome to look up my user name because I explained it also in my prayer request.

 

[Jaynes1234]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen

 

[stephen79]

Yes she also changed that was 8 months ago calling me names and putting me down, and she never done that before. I wouldnt call it fog i thought it was demons she let in through sex with an unbeliever. Anyway, even if she comes back to me i cant be happy now she has cheated, can i pray that God turns the clock back? 

 

[kbehrent]

You are feeling sorry for yourself.  Stop it!!!!   Read the book of Hosea in "the Bible". You need to learn to love yourself, God, and your wife like Hosea you will be well on your way to becoming like Jesus in you life, which is what God wants you to be. 






The best way to change your circumstances around you and to have the people around you do some changing is found in this verse of the Bible, the Word.

Proverbs 4:20-23 (ASV) 
20  My son, attend to my words; Incline thine ear unto my sayings.
21  Let them not depart from thine eyes; Keep them in the midst of thy heart.
22  For they are life unto those that find them, And health to all their flesh.
23  Keep thy heart with all diligence; For out of it are the issues of life.

You, your flesh, your family will all be affected if "you" will make Jesus and God your main focus in life. Read the Word daily, especially the New Testament. Read it, memorize passages, speak passages aloud, mediate on the Words you have read. Sing praise songs, worship the Lord, And love others around you.  Love them like Jesus does and says to do. When you do these things the people around you, your family, shall change.

In the name of Jesus, I bless you with the life of God.

 

[stephen79]

You, your flesh, your family will all be affected if "you" will make Jesus and God your main focus in life. Read the Word daily, especially the New Testament. Read it, memorize passages, speak passages aloud, mediate on the Words you have read. Sing praise songs, worship the Lord, And love others around you.  Love them like Jesus does and says to do. When you do these things the people around you, your family, shall change.

In the name of Jesus, I bless you with the life of God.

I did all that i had a close relationship with God and the person around me my wife changed into an adultara.  She left me for another man. I cant help being hurt, i want someone better than her, its impossible  now, nothing will mend my heart, i did everything you said and it only got me here all alone and she is happy as larry

Mathew 21.22 all thinhs ye ask in.prayer yeah shall receive, i pray when i wake up it is january 2016, and she hasnt and wont cheat on me

 

[kbehrent]

Yes she also changed that was 8 months ago calling me names and putting me down, and she never done that before. I wouldnt call it fog i thought it was demons she let in through sex with an unbeliever. Anyway, even if she comes back to me i cant be happy now she has cheated, can i pray that God turns the clock back? 

There is a song, Time keeps on slipping slipping slipping, into the future....".  God has made no provision for going back into time. He has only made provision for moving forward into the future. In His book the Bible, He instructs us on how to live a life worthy of being called Christians and Jesus followers.  If we do not do what Jesus has said for us to do then we are not Jesus followers. Forgiveness is a powerful part of loving your neighbor as yourself, and Loving God.  How can we say we love God and then not do what He instructs us to do?  Faith and love go hand in hand together in the Bible. Jesus forgave us for all our trespasses while we were yet sinners and unsaved.  We were very unlovely and Jesus came to us and said, "I love you".  There is nothing we can do that will make God and Jesus love us more, and there is nothing we can do that will make God and Jesus love us less. And the Holy Spirit says He loves us to, just the way we are, and nothing we do can change that love for us. 

I went through the same situation with my first wife. She had went with several men, and we had 3 children. I turned to the Lord fully when I wanted to end my life, and He was there in my time of need, when I called out to Him.  I applied His teachings to the situation and I learned how to love the way God loves. I forgave my wife because I loved her with God's kind of love and would have accepted her back into a marriage relationship.  She eventually faced a decision to stay together, or for her to decide to go her own way. She turned away from me and went her own way.  I was very much hurt, but I had Jesus and God in my life and I am very thankful for that. I have kept that relationship with God alive for the past 40 years and it has been worth it. 

You need to answer only one question each time you face any situation,  "What would Jesus do?.

In the name of Jesus, I bless you with the life of God.

 

[stephen79]

I think your getting mixed up between forgivness and sufferring. I forgive her, i no she will never come back, i am suffering as i am unhappy, as the bible says some people are gifted.like paul to be alone, others need someone else to marry like me, so please pray i am married again in two months to a better woman

 

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